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在青春的季节,别跟孩子较劲;在叛逆的时期,顺孩子的心理在懵懂的时刻,给予孩子引导;在沟通的时刻,做个心理医生你与青春期孩子之间是否总是难于沟通、硝烟弥漫吗?
你在为青春期孩子的叛逆行为气恼不已、寝食难安吗?阅读本书,了解青春叛逆期孩子的心理特点和成长规律,选择与孩子沟通的正确方法,别让孩子伤在青春叛逆期。
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青春期对孩子来讲是一个特殊的成长阶段,环境的影响、身体的变化都会让孩子产生恐慌和不适;而自我意识慢慢形成,也会促使孩子做出诸多叛逆行为。本书帮助家长了解青春期孩子的内心想法,有的放矢地给予切实有效的教子指导,为父母找到打开孩子心房的钥匙,引导孩子走向健康阳光的生活。
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舒雪冬,出生于1978年,河南遂平人。2004年毕业于郑州大学,长期关注家庭教育和青少年心理健康的研究。发表学术论文10余篇,主编著作3部,主持或参与省(部)、厅级科研项目12项,曾多次获得先进个人称号。
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第1章迷茫的青春期,父母要理解孩子的叛逆心理 1
心理断乳期,理解孩子总是希望独处的心理 2
说一句顶十句——叛逆期的孩子总认为自己“有理” 4
“我就是要和你唱反调!”——青春期孩子为何总有反抗情绪 7
“能不能别管我!”——青春期的孩子很不听话 10
“我就想让别人都关注我”——爱穿奇装异服的少年们 12
“为什么大家都要取笑我”——青春期的孩子更易自卑和敏感 15
“不要来惹我!”——孩子现在脾气怎么这么大 17

第2章自我意识初成,青春期的孩子需要沟通和尊重 21
任何一个青春期的孩子都需要被理解 22
“谁让你动我的东西?”
——青春期的孩子为何关上了同父母分享的心 24
“能不能尊重我的隐私?”——孩子好像一下子多了很多秘密 27
“不知道爸爸妈妈是怎么处理这个问题的?”
——用自己的经历引起孩子的沟通兴致 30
“我也有自己的想法!”——别总把自己的想法强加给孩子 32
“我要自由!”——给孩子一块属于自己的“领地” 34
“为什么不问问我?”——给孩子发表意见的机会 37

第3章心理调适期,父母要深切关心孩子的心理状态 41
孩子的孤独心理——轻轻叩开孩子的心门 42
孩子盲目追求与攀比——别让虚荣心阻碍孩子的成长 44
孩子的嫉妒心理——别让嫉妒焚伤孩子的心 47
孩子的烦躁心理——别让压力压垮孩子 49
孩子的胆怯心理——如何培养勇敢、自信的孩子 52
孩子的紧张心理——告诉孩子凡事轻松面对 55
孩子的比较心理——教育出脚踏实地的孩子 57

第4章青春期的孩子易躁动,这样平抚孩子的叛逆心理 61
“算了吧,太土了”——与时俱进,才能教育好孩子 62
“能不能教教我!”——示弱法赢得孩子的认同 64
“我也要做坏孩子”——“坏孩子”活得才轻松快乐 67
“就是想惹老师生气”——怎么教育上课爱捣乱的孩子 69
“吞云吐雾真潇洒”——怎样让青春期的孩子远离香烟 72
“你不听也得听”——不要总是命令孩子 75
“为什么总是不顾我的面子”——不要当着外人的面批评孩子 77

第5章青春期的孩子有主意,父母该如何与孩子融洽相处 81
为什么青春期的孩子与父母的关系越来越疏远 82
进入孩子的世界,和孩子做朋友 84
离家出走的孩子心里想什么 87
到了青春期,孩子好像总是躲着父母 90
换个沟通方式,青春期的孩子最烦父母的唠叨 92
讲讲自己的经历和心里话,让孩子理解父母的苦心 95

第6章青春期的孩子难交流,父母这样给予引导和鼓励 99
与叛逆期的孩子交流,别一味地教训 100
青春期孩子的心事需要被倾听 102
与青春期的孩子沟通,要选择恰当的时机和环境 105
赏识教育,青春期的孩子需要父母的语言鼓励 108
批评要适度,青春期的孩子自尊心强 110
试着与青春期孩子使用非语言沟通 113
曲径通幽,从孩子的好朋友开始了解其心理变化 116

第7章青春期的孩子情绪易变化,引导孩子走出内心不安 119
“未来的路该怎么走”——对未来的茫然让孩子焦躁不安 120
孩子到底是怎么了——理解青春期孩子情绪的不稳定 122
“总是没法集中精神学习”——帮助孩子缓解青春期焦虑症 125
“我就是不想被老师管”——老师的管教让孩子反感 127
“总是静不下心来”——青春期的孩子总是心浮气躁 130
“好朋友就该两肋插刀”——孩子盲目地讲哥们义气 133
“我确实不如别人”——孩子总是情绪低落、自卑 135

第8章别让生理变化困扰孩子,巧妙引导孩子的性问题 139
吾家有女初长成——帮女孩正确认识自己的身体变化 140
男子汉是怎样形成的——帮男孩正确认识自己的身体变化 142
“最担心女儿受伤害”——告诉女孩学会保护自己的身体 145
“该怎么开口”——用可以接受的方式让孩子正确认识“性” 148
青春心理——孩子为什么刻意疏远异性 150
为什么会做那样的梦——梦中的性让孩子感到可耻 153
手淫的孩子有负罪感——引导孩子正确认识性自慰 156

第9章青春期的孩子易受挫,引导孩子度过脆弱的花季 159
“手套效应”:孩子的自信来源于父母的鼓励 160
甘地夫人法则:让孩子明白挫折是生活的一部分 162
青春期的孩子,提高抗压受挫的能力 165
温柔地对待孩子的错误,“棍棒”会打走孩子的自信 167
允许孩子失败,“输得起”的孩子才有更多赢的机会 170
直面恐惧,让孩子拥有过硬的心理素质 173
拿第一却不高兴——孩子获得了好名次,内心压力反而更大 175

第10章青春期的孩子爱厌学,父母该如何耐心引导 179
学习到底为了什么——让孩子明确找到学习的真正动力 180
厌学情绪大——帮孩子找到学习的兴趣所在 182
“课外辅导班好累”——不要盲目为孩子报各种特色班 185
时间总是不够用——帮助孩子制订合理的学习计划 187
知识点怎么都记不住——帮孩子寻找适合自己的记忆方法 190
“我就是不喜欢他”——孩子不喜欢某科老师而导致偏科 193
快乐学习——孩子身心放松才能提高学习效率 195

第11章青春期的孩子会交际,让孩子分清损友和益友 199
什么是真正的朋友——帮孩子建立自己的择友标准 200
“我想成为一个受欢迎的人”——培养孩子良好的交往品质 202
“我想交朋友”——不要过多干涉孩子的交友权利 205
如何结交新朋友——鼓励孩子多参加有意义的聚会 208
缩短和老师之间的距离——教孩子学会与老师相处 210
可怜天下父母心——教导孩子学会换位思考理解父母 213
“不”字怎么说出口——引导孩子学会拒绝 215

第12章聆听青春期孩子的心声,帮助孩子处理情感困惑 219
强制打压的反作用——理智对待孩子的早恋行为 220
与异性交往并不等于早恋——理解青春期孩子的情感需要 222
什么是爱——向孩子灌输正确的恋爱观 225
分不清的情感——告诉孩子友情和爱情的区别 227
交往尺度——告诉孩子大方地与异性相处 230
“我好像喜欢上老师了”——帮助孩子理清对老师的情感 232
被人追求怎么办——教孩子学会拒绝异性的求爱 235

第13章青春期的孩子追“流行”,让孩子正确面对心理欲望 239
“追星族”的心理——孩子盲目追星怎么办 240
“别人有的我也要”——孩子小小年纪就虚荣心强怎么办 243
“我要美丽”——告诉女孩,青春期化妆不可取 246
阳光男孩该怎样打扮——告诉男孩奇装异服并不帅 248
“为什么我这么胖”——告诉女儿,青春期不可节食减肥 251
“我也想穿高跟鞋”——告诉女儿高跟鞋是不适宜的美丽 254

第14章叛逆的孩子更钟爱网络,引导孩子不痴醉不沉迷 257
父母谈网“色”变——孩子迷恋网络怎么办 258
“只有玩网络游戏才让我觉得畅快”
——沉迷网络游戏的孩子该怎么教育 260
网恋,幸福还是陷阱——别让孩子成为网恋的牺牲品 262
网络不是洪水猛兽——如何让网络成为有用的工具 265
“网友可以交吗”——教育孩子慎重对待网络朋友 268
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生活中的父母们,细心的你是否发现,当孩子进入初中以后,他(她)似乎变了很多:是不是突然长高了?是不是突然变得闷闷不乐?是不是不再像以前那么听话了?是不是不把所有的秘密都告诉你了?是不是时常会拿着小镜子照来照去,开始关注自己的外形和穿着了,爱干净了?并且,你发现,他(她)经常会对你说:“什么都不懂,懒得跟你说。”“你不明白的。”……
其实,这些语言和行为都表明你的孩子青春期了。那么,什么是青春期呢?心理医生认为,孩子在10岁之前是对父母的崇拜期,而12~16岁是孩子的“心理断乳期”,孩子进入到这个年龄段,随着身体的发育、所学知识的增加以及知识面、阅历的增加,他们的自我意识增强,他们渴望脱离对父母的依赖,因此,极易对父母产生“逆反心理”而不服父母的管教。为此,很多父母操碎了心:一方面,孩子正处在青春期,会面临成长中的烦恼,需要有个倾诉的对象,而孩子似乎已经对自己锁上了心门;另一方面,青春期是个特殊的时期,孩子一不小心,就可能走上错误的人生道路……
现代社会,大部分家庭都只有一个孩子,父母们把所有精力都放到孩子身上,孩子成功了就意味着百分之百的成功,而失败了就意味着百分之百的失败,父母们输不起。所以父母们“望子成龙”、“望女成凤”的愿望比任何时候都更为迫切,而与之相对应的是父母对孩子的规划越来越多,甚至日常生活都要严加管理,时时刻刻地看管、监视和提防,这使得父母们耗尽时间、心机和精力,却并没有培养出真正出类拔萃的好孩子。
实际上,作为父母,如果不了解青春期孩子的独特心理,不了解他们的成长困惑,不掌握一些打开孩子心门的心理学方法的话,那么,我们便很容易陷入“孩子冲动叛逆,父母气急败坏”的教育困境。父母们,应该学一点心理学了!
当然,父母需要学习的心理学知识很多,比如,为什么青春期的孩子开始封闭内心?青春期的孩子为什么叛逆?他们为什么变得躁动不安?……在了解青春期孩子的这些特殊表现背后的原因后,我们就能做到有的放矢,从而找到最佳的教育方法,帮助孩子消除很多青春期的烦心事!
总之,青春期的家庭教育不是一门简单的学问,敏感、复杂,需要认真对待。家庭教育的关键在家长,家长的方法和态度直接决定了能否和孩子融洽相处,能否使孩子顺利、健康、快乐地度过自己人生中的特殊时期。
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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

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