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《爱的十万个为什么》
百万畅销书作家Ayawawa杨冰阳**作品!
打开这本书,你便离幸福不远
★具体情感难题字典式查询
十万余案例中精选关注度**,*易遇到的两百个心塞情感难题,独特的阅读指南帮你读懂书,读懂爱。
★筛选重点问题,深入剖析。
授之于鱼不如授之于渔,快速解答对症下药与学会方法一样重要。本书的长篇解析将爱情中的重、难、要点进行万字解析,让你吃透并掌握爱的方法,学会爱才能被爱。
★做一个会说话的女人
书中收录了众多女性话术,如三句话可以搞定男人的所有问题,怎样的说话术让女汉子变女神等,做一个会说话的女人,才能得到幸福。
★心术,就是让你懂得男人心
男人可以是魔鬼也可以是天使,你若懂得他们的心理,便可在爱情道路上一帆风顺,而这本书,教你看懂男人心。
★三大测试*次集结出版,了解自己,了解他,才是幸福**步
为什么别人都叫你美女,却没人追你?——自我评分测试
在男人眼里,你是否值得娶回家?——pu测试
你和他真的可以白头偕老吗?——离婚值测试
《狠狠爱自己:女人不“狠”,地位不稳2》
★2013年两性情感类重磅之作:60万册畅销书《女人不“狠”,地位不稳》再推第二部。
★“狠男作家”曾子航教你成为心狠手不辣的新时代“狠女”!
★继“女人不狠,地位不稳”后,再度发起话题争议:女人,别指望男人给你安*感!

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《爱的十万个为什么》
关于爱情,每个女人心中都有十万个“为什么”。
为什么优秀的你遇不到合适的他?为什么认真的你得不到长久的爱?为什么相爱容易结婚难?为什么婚后感情会面临更多考验?……
这本书会帮助你揭示这些看似孤立的问题背后所隐藏着的爱情规则。
越早知道,越早幸福。
“她”是你的救心丸——十万封来信中精选200余个代表性的读者提问,对症下药、一针见血地解决你的情感困扰和虐心难题。
“她”是你的闺蜜团——陪你品头论足、伴你欢笑流泪、帮你出谋划策、教你虏获男神,为你的甜蜜锦上添花,帮你的痛苦雪中送炭。
“她”是你的锦囊袋——无论是“相亲、热恋、结婚”、“冷战、出轨、分手”还是“金钱、婆媳、孩子”,你想要的一切心术、话术和妙招,都可以在这里找到答案。
学会爱,学会被爱,做一个会爱的女人。
《狠狠爱自己:女人不“狠”,地位不稳2》
本书是 “狠”男作家曾子航的畅销书《女人不“狠”,地位不稳》的第二部。作者在*一部中主要探讨女人跟男人的关系:女人要对男人“狠”,只要当个“三不”女人(深藏不露、捉摸不透、飘忽不定的女人)就可以让男人一辈子为你神魂颠倒。第二部则进一步探讨女人和自己的关系:女人要对自己“狠”,要学会“狠狠爱自己”,要下狠心学会跟自己交流、跟自己互动、跟自己做朋友,真正学会接纳自己的不完美。
本书揭示了爱情的真相:男人是靠不住的!女人只有更好地爱自己,男人才会爱你!正能量、安*感,男人给不了你,只有自己才能给自己。为自己而活的女人,才是作者认为有魅力的女人——“三不”女人!

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杨冰阳(Ayawawa),进化心理学派情感专家、年度微信自媒体十强公众号情感类博主、新浪微博更受欢迎情感大V、门萨中国前主席、畅销书作家、网络人气美女、时尚辣妈、多栖艺人、客座专家。
著有《聪明爱:别拿男人不当动物》《完美关系的秘密》等多部畅销书,一上市便荣登各大网站情感类销售榜*!
女性贴心择偶顾问,爱情风险控制专家。
只提供实际的爱情方法论,过目不忘,随学随用!只有你尚且不知道的技巧,没有你看后搞不定的男人!
如果你不满意自己的情感现状又不知如何改变,就赶快加入五十万人的智慧大军吧!
你想知道的所有答案都在这里,每天为你新鲜解答、深刻剖析!每天修炼一小步,幸福路上一大步!
原来爱情可以如此简单。
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爱的十万个为什么
狠狠爱自己:女人不“狠”,地位不稳2

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《爱的十万个为什么》
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从2013年上半年开始做第一期微问答起,每天筛选和回答十封读者来信,已经在不知不觉中成为了我的一种习惯。
包括之前的情感咨询在内,我已经累计收到了数十万封咨询来信、解答了至少五千例具有代表性的情感困惑。
在这个过程中,我发现了一个奇妙的现象:每一位来信咨询的读者都觉得自己很特殊,觉得自己的痛苦是如此与众不同。
但是很遗憾,如果你也跟我一样,每天打开Socialbase用关键字来提炼数以万条的平台消息时,你会发现围绕着"追求、冷战、出轨、分手、挽回、结婚、金钱、孩子、婆媳"等等的问题常常是如此类似。
就像每一位患者都觉得自己的疼痛非常特殊、揪心、致命,医生却可以一眼看到疾病的真相。
太阳之下并无新事。
爱情的大规律隐藏在每一个表象之下,顺多福,逆多苦。
说实话,我迫不及待地想让每一个姑娘都能在最宝贵的年华里,尽快知晓这些幸福的规则和秘密,不要白白浪费了青春。
当大家在人生的岔路口感觉迷茫的时候,我希望可以给大家最具有普适性的参考意见。
对于那些挣扎在爱情泥沼里的人,我希望可以帮助他们用最快的速度自拔,继续奔跑在通往幸福的大道上。
这也是我之所以能坚持至今的动力和初心。
很荣幸我有这样的机缘,能够博览群信,从中提炼出人类爱情的共性,这是我的幸运。现在,我想借这本书,让你也可以拥有这份幸运。
所有人都在问"为什么?"--于是我希望自己的回答,能尽可能对两性相处奥秘作出详尽细致的剖析,希望从根本上帮助每一个人解开自己的情感困惑和心结,让大家不会再挣扎和痛苦。
所有人都想知道"怎么办?"--于是我明白,光有心法是不够的,对于很多人,还需要一些可以即刻缓解痛苦的灵药和招式,还需要一些下一秒就可以操作、可以生效的行动指南。
这两个出发点结合在一起,就是我回答读者咨询来信时的根本原则。
我的分析和答案有别于鸡汤暖文,我永远不会说"你很好""你最棒","会有天使替他来爱你"。我也不会空洞地鼓励女孩们自立自强,要经济独立,不要把男人当回事。
如果今天你去参加一个职业培训,对方教你如何勾搭男人,你会给她一个差评。
同理,当女人想找归宿来依靠的时候,对方跟你说要独立自强,你也应该给她一个差评才对。
要知道,情感专家的职责不是教女孩们自强自立、经济独立,就像音乐老师不负责教你前滚翻,语文老师不负责教你傅里叶方程一样。
独立自主自力更生是人生的一部分,但不是全部;而当你人生的现阶段最想要的是爱情时,我不负责陪你谈心熬鸡汤,我只负责对症下药。
我希望我的姑娘们,都能进可攻退可守,在想休息时有依靠,想奋斗时有力量。
爱情很现实,现实很残酷。
让女孩们学会提高自身价值掌握感情主控权,哪怕一开始只是说几句软话让两人感情关系可以缓和一下,然后再慢慢努力去维系和改善一段关系,这比教女孩们谋生技能更容易,而且能使女孩们获得更大的益处。
《狠狠爱自己:女人不“狠”,地位不稳2》

女人要学会
狠狠爱自己
爱的第一步,不是去爱别人,而是爱自己
按照前面提到的投射原理,你对伴侣付出什么,就是对自己付出什么。爱对方,深层次就是爱自己。这跟我们平常所说的“帮别人就是帮自己”、“与人方便就是与己方便”是一个道理。如果一个人不懂得爱自己,总是向外寻找爱、渴求爱,就像一个乞丐总是去向他人乞讨一样艰难。一旦这种寻找发生错位或者断裂,他就会怨天尤人,以至痛不欲生。
与其低微地去祈求别人的爱,还不如爱自己多一点。记住:爱的第一步,不是如何去爱别人,而是要学会爱自己。
在中国历史上,有两种女性我最钦佩:一种是像花木兰、梁红玉这样的巾帼英雄,一种则是以苏小小、赛金花为代表的青楼名妓。前者敢于在疆场上跟英雄豪杰一较高低,堪称巾帼不让须眉;后者在大门不出二门不迈的闺阁年代,抛头露面,笑傲江湖,在情场上引无数公子王孙竞折腰,活出了一种洒脱,爱出了一份率真。这其中,钱塘名妓苏小小更是成了男人心中的一个梦,女性眼中的一座碑!
苏小小,传说中名气很大,青史里却不见踪影。传说她爱过一个豪门公子,爱也算爱得轰轰烈烈,可是公子在被父亲召回之后,便像断了线的风筝一样没了消息。苏小小呢,当然也伤心难受过,但她并没像被负心郎抛弃的霍小玉那样从此一病不起,也没像刚烈如火的杜十娘似的来个怒沉百宝箱,而是收拾了下心情,重新上路,桃花灿烂般的继续活跃在文人墨客的世界中,而那段伤心往事早已像一阵青烟似的飘散在钱塘江上了。后来,她还急公好义,资助一位穷书生进京赶考,后者金榜题名之时,不想却是前者魂断钱塘之日。书生抚棺大哭,在她墓前立碑曰:钱塘苏小小之墓。
当然,苏小小的早逝并非是因为失恋和相思,而是一场突如其来的重病。她并没有像林黛玉那样自怨自艾,而是恬然释然。她觉得自己死于青春华年,反倒可以给世界留下一个最美的印象。她甚至认为,死神在她十九岁那年造访,乃是老天爷对她最好的成全。她不用像很多妓女美人迟暮和人老珠黄之后,惨遭男人的背叛。
这个活了不到二十岁的奇女子,从此便成了一段传奇:李贺为她赋诗一首《苏小小》;白居易到杭州做官,去她墓前凭吊:“苏家小女旧知名,杨柳风前别有情”;余秋雨在他的那部超级畅销散文集《文化苦旅》中,也辟出了专门的篇幅来谈及这个姑娘:“她比茶花女活得更为潇洒。在她面前,中国历史上其他有文学价值的名妓,都把自己搞得太逼仄了,为了个负心汉,或为了一个朝廷,颠簸得过于认真。只有她那种颇有哲理感的超逸,才成为中国文人心头一幅秘藏的圣符。”
去年,我到西湖游览,也专门去看了下那闻名已久的苏小小墓。墓不高也不大,在众多西湖名景中,似乎很不起眼,但却也让人流连。当时我就在想,一个被公子王孙始乱终弃后的姑娘,为何如此看得开?在“失恋33天”之后,就像扔掉一件旧衣裳似的重新笑逐颜开?仅仅是因为妓女的身份让她早已把男女私情看得云淡风轻?那为什么同样是在情海颠簸多年,霍小玉、杜十娘却没能放下呢?历代名妓何其多也,为何偏偏是她赢得了如许赞誉的生前身后名?
在为写这本书搜集各种资料的过程中,我一直在找寻答案。直到有一天,我恍然大悟:因为她懂得爱自己!一个懂得爱自己的女人,才会散发出一种自信而优雅的光芒,才能把自己变成一座灯塔,引得无数男人为之仰慕!
关于苏小小的相关记载太少,我只知道当她结束那段不值得为之痛苦的恋情之后,她就由对情的执著转向对美的向往。这种对美的向往,包括对自己作为一个女性魅力真正的肯定,对大自然的热爱,对红尘众生的超然。当一个女人从自己的身体开始,到自己的灵魂,都能够刻骨热爱,她便具备了一种暗示。什么暗示?她是美的使者,她站在自信的屋顶眺望大地,男人都像粉丝一样匍匐在她的脚下。就算她天生不美,却爱自己的每一寸肌肤,相信自己内在的巨大能量,谁会不爱她呢?从心理上,她便是一个所向披靡的人。而这个女人就是苏小小。
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