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教出20年后有出息的男孩

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教出20年后有出息的男孩

Name: 教出20年后有出息的男孩
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孩子的幸福，并不是与你在一起这短短的几十年，而是更长更久的未来。你要给孩子的幸福，是帮助他如何成长为一个有出息的好男儿。

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《教出20年后有出息的男孩》会给你很多非常有用的信息，对如何教育孩子有指导性的帮助。不单单是母亲们需要读这本书，社会上有很多的群体，都可以读读这本书。男孩们都将成为未来的希望，而帮助男孩们成长，也是全社会的责任。
学着当不抓狂的爸妈，不仅要懂得教养的方法，更重要的是要坦然去检视和面对自己作为家长的负面情绪和思维方式。
对于妈妈来说，养育男孩的困难，恐怕是源于自身对于男孩的不甚了解，尤其是当男孩迈入青春期之后。不过本书可以帮助你解决这一难题。读完本书，你会对如何把小男孩培养成男子汉信心十足。

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第1章再富不能富了他：
“穷养”教出20年后伟岸的男孩
孟子曰：“天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤，空乏其身，行拂乱其所为，所以动心忍性，曾益其所不能。”只有经历过风雨洗礼的人，才能守得云开见彩虹。同样，也只有“穷养”的男孩，才会经受住人生中严寒酷暑的拷打，从而成长为伟岸的男子汉。
男孩为何要“穷养”而不“富养”
让孩子过过“穷日子”
再富也不能把他当“皇帝”
别让孩子坐享其成

第2章不要代替他成长：
“挫败”教出20年后迎难而上的男孩
“自古雄才多磨难，从来纨绔少伟男。”挫折是男孩生命中最重要的一块试金石，在挫折面前屡败屡战的男孩，就像经历千锤万凿的璞玉，必然会绽放出他们夺目的光彩，培养出坚强的意志和必胜的勇气，微笑着面对未来的挑战。
挫折是锻炼坚强男孩的好教材
痛苦不可怕，提升孩子的受挫能力
亮剑精神，激发孩子战胜挫折的勇气
教育孩子坚持到底，不要轻易放弃
创设挫折情景，让男孩体验挫折
让男孩学会给自己加油打气

第3章把他当成男子汉：
“责任”教出20年后有担当的男孩
世界就是一个大舞台，每个人都在扮演不同的角色，承担不同的责任。一个男孩子，终究会成为一个男人，逐渐承担起为人子、为人夫、为人父的责任。所以，身为父母的我们，就必须把责任感打造成男孩子的脊梁。帮助他成长为一个顶天立地的人！
不要包办男孩的责任
让孩子为自己的过失埋单
责任不打折，把孩子当“大人”对待
要责任，不要借口
让孩子承担家庭的责任

第 4章给他独立的机会：
“放手”教出20年后自力更生的男孩
当男孩长成一株参天橡树，勇敢拥抱蓝天时，此刻的他才真正成为了一个独立的男孩子。倘若男孩迟迟无法迈入独立的门槛，仍然是一株攀援在父母身上的藤蔓，那么他肯定无法为自己的命运掌舵，进而乘风破浪，披荆斩棘。“天行健，君子以自强不息。”只有放手给男孩独立的机会，才能让他在生活的课堂中学会飞翔，进而成长为搏击长空的强者。
教孩子自己动手，提高自理能力
独立尝试是男孩不可缺的体验
把选择的权利还给男孩
掀起“大脑风暴”，让男孩学会独立思考
给男孩犯错的权利

第5章说他很棒：
“鼓励”教出20年后自信自主的男孩
男孩儿就像“橡皮泥”，父母如何塑造，他们就会相应如何成长。倘若父母整天讽刺挖苦，将孩子的自信心浇灭，那么他们就会整日活在自卑的阴影里。倘若父母多给孩子一些善意的鼓励，将他们的自信提升，那么他们就会变得乐观进而阳光。所以，要想培养成功的男子汉，就慷慨地给他鼓励吧！
欣赏孩子是培养孩子的第一步
培养阳光心态，塑造男孩乐观的人生态度
学会赞美的技巧，好孩子是“夸”出来的
帮助男孩战胜自卑
对男孩少点高期望

■ 第 6章让他慢慢地成长：
“慢养”教出20年后好性格的男孩
培养有出息的男子汉，就像大厨煲汤一样，要用文火慢炖，需知欲速则不达。男孩的成长犹如一场马拉松比赛，只要父母拿出足够的耐心，像朋友一样跟他并肩向前，那么他一定能够到达胜利的终点。要知道，慢养长大的男孩沉静而富有智慧，洒脱而不轻佻，随着岁月的积淀，他们就如一杯醇醇的美酒。
人生的岔路口，不要急着替他选择
用“心灵鸡汤”慢慢滋养孩子的内心
家长要多一点耐心，孩子的成长无法速成
水滴石穿，扎实打造男孩成功的根基
锻炼浮躁男孩的耐性

第7章给他做个好榜样：
“身教”教出20年后品质优秀的男孩
家庭是男孩的第一所学校，而父母正是男孩的第一任老师。在男孩的身上，总是可以找到父母的影子。想要教出一个品质优秀的男孩，父母就必须为儿子做出一个好榜样，用实际行动告诉他们什么该做，什么不该做。言传身教，才是孩子成长的第一养料！
父母如何成为男孩的好榜样
大人诚实，儿子才能诚实
积点口德，孩子是大人的“复读机”
培养品行端正的男孩
孝敬是代代相传的美德
做一面镜子，让孩子远离不良生活习惯

第8章多带他长长见识：
“视野”教出20年后志在四方的男孩
孔子曰：“登东山而小鲁，登泰山而小天下。”的确，只有站得高才能看得远，坐在井底的青蛙，只能看到井口大小的天空，永远不会知道外面的世界有多大。父母要想培养出20年后志在四方的伟岸男孩，就要多带他长长见识，开拓视野，而不是将他永远关在巴掌大的家里。
大自然是最广阔的课堂
让孩子从电影中汲取营养
故事，是儿童认识世界的一个窗口
走出家门，在社会活动中锻炼孩子
送男孩一幅地图，让他胸怀世界
带着孩子“上山下乡”，让他体验另一种生活
让孩子学习名人成才的经历

第9章学习上帮着点他：
“方法”教出20年后有学习力的男孩
金榜题名，这是每个父母对男孩的殷殷期望。那么，如何才能让男孩把学习当做一件快乐的活动而不是难捱的苦役呢？如何才能让男孩从繁重的课业负担中走出，做到游刃有余呢？答案很简单，就是教他正确的学习“方法”。面对学习上遇到困境的孩子，如果一味地训斥，那么只能让孩子对学习产生更大的抵触情绪。
让男孩自动自发地学习
树立必胜的信念，让孩子在学业上走得更远
有张有弛，让男孩学会做学习的主人
做一个合格的“旁观者”，让他自己解决“难题”
让孩子说一口流利的英语
搬掉男孩求学路上的绊脚石

第10章多让他与人交往：
“沟通”教出20年后高情商的男孩
曾经有人提出这样一个公式：80%情商+15%智商+5%逆商（逆向思维能力）＝成功人士。而在情商中，协调人际关系的能力更是重中之重。想让男孩拥有和谐的人际关系，就要从小教他学会与人交往，告诉他在与他人交流时，哪些事是该做的，哪些事是不该做的。要知道男孩的交际圈子，往往会影响到他以后的成就，这一点父母们千万不要忽视。
让男孩愿意开口说话
教他知礼节，懂礼仪的男孩受欢迎
教孩子理解和宽容，让他拥有交流的通行证
扩大交往圈子，让男孩成为社交“明星”
治愈男孩的“社交恐惧症”
引导男孩获得美好的友谊

第11章给他富足的未来：
“理财”教出20年后高财商的男孩
中国人常说：“富不过三代。”想让儿子拥有一个富足的未来，父母就必须教给他生财的本领，这才是一把打开财富大门的金钥匙。授之以鱼不如授之以渔，让他掌握理财的方法，懂得赚钱的诀窍，远比一笔遗产更珍贵！
打造男孩的理财能力
让孩子利用好压岁钱这笔财产
教男孩学会“花钱”
学会储蓄，积累财富
培养男孩的经济头脑
让男孩管好自己的钱，做金钱的主人

第12章别害怕他闯小祸：
“冒险”教出20年后大胆创新的男孩
男孩就像孙猴子，一刻也闲不住，一不留神就会闯出小祸，甚至不知道天高地厚，惹出难以收拾的事情来。对这只喜欢冒险的孙猴子，父母们是把他压在五指山下，禁锢他们的天性，还是给他们戴上一个大小自如金箍，引导他们长成一个20年后大胆创新的男子汉呢？
冒险是男孩的天性
爱动拳头的习惯源于男孩的英雄梦
男孩淘气不是罪
在“摔打”中成长，培养男孩的阳刚气
保证安全是冒险的前提

第13章陪他走过危险区：
“疏导”教出20年后阳光快乐的男孩
青春期是男孩的高速成长期，也是一个“事故多发”的危险期--管得松了，父母们担心他会走上一条拉不回的岔道；管得紧了，他会更加逆反，把父母当做“敌人”。其实，对于这个时期的孩子，父母们完全不必无所适从。不妨学学治水的大禹，用“疏导”的方法教出阳光快乐的男孩，让他们顺利地走过这个特殊的阶段。
对叛逆期的男孩要“放风筝”
给男孩留出私密空间
男孩大了，情愫自然产生
教男孩把握好与异性交往的距离
做好男孩的性教育工作
孩子的自慰行为要理解

第14章让他有安全意识：
“预防”教出20年后懂得自我保护的男孩
孩子是祖国的未来，承载着家庭和社会太多的期望，他们的安全也时时刻刻地牵动家长的心。如何提高男孩的安全意识，让他顺利地健康成长，这是父母必须重视的课题。“君子不立危墙之下”，只有让男孩学会“预防”，让他们拥有自我保护意识和能力，安全教育才算成功。
自我保护是男孩的基本能力
告诫男孩遇事冷静，更好地保护自己
教孩子处理外伤
教孩子一些交通安全知识

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