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《培养优秀男孩的88个细节》是一本专门为男孩编写的成才书,通过生活和学习中的细节为切入点,讲诉做一名优秀男孩所需要挫折能力·领导才能·责任感·正义感·独立感·自控能力·学习能力·交际能力·理财能力。针对每一种能力,结合生活中各种各样的教育细节,和当代社会上的新现象,为父母进行了全面到位的指导,为男孩们列出了88个达到优秀所需的方法和技巧,让每一位男孩的天赋都能有施展的空间,真正成为一位顶天立地的男子汉,品学兼优·身心健康的高材生。《培养优秀男孩的88个细节》读者群广泛,是家长必读的参考书,有广阔的销售市场,有无限的阅读空间,相信销售市场会走向很好。
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《培养优秀男孩的88个细节》通过生活和学习中的细节为切入点,讲述做一名优秀男孩所需要抗挫折能力、领导才能、责任感、正义感、独立性、自控能力、学习能力、交际能力、理财能力。针对每一种能力,又结合生活中各种各样的教育细节和当代社会上的新现象,为父母进行了全面到位的指导。为男孩们列出了88个达到优秀所需的方法和技巧,让每一位男孩的天赋都有施展的空间。
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王阔,男,自由撰稿人,1978年生,热爱文学从事多年图书策划编写工作,主要以社科图书为主,策划编写多种类型图书,包括心灵、励志、教子、女人、职场等方面。受到了读者的青睐与欢迎,并取得了很好的社会效益和经济效益。
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第一章 用西点军校精神把男孩培养成真正的男子汉
培养优秀男孩细节1:做个敢于承担责任的小男子汉
培养优秀男孩细节2:从小培养男孩强烈的责任心
培养优秀男孩细节3:注意细节,小事成就大事
培养优秀男孩细节4:有责任感的男孩更勇敢
培养优秀男孩细节5:责任心有助于培养男孩的能力
培养优秀男孩细节6:让男孩有机会承担责任
培养优秀男孩细节7:鼓励犯错的男孩主动承担责任
培养优秀男孩细节8:给男孩一个提升责任心的家庭氛围
培养优秀男孩细节9:成长路上,责任伴男孩走向成熟
培养优秀男孩细节10:对男孩说:你能行!
培养优秀男孩细节11:自信让男孩愉快地接纳自己

第二章 帮助男孩树立正确的人生观
培养优秀男孩细节12:成为男孩心中的偶像父母
培养优秀男孩细节13:给你的男孩进行智力投资
培养优秀男孩细节14:隔代教育男孩应该注意的问题
培养优秀男孩细节15:保姆,家教中被忽视的参与者
培养优秀男孩细节16:管教男孩不必做大声婆
培养优秀男孩细节17:让亲子关系和谐
培养优秀男孩细节18:运用有益的暗示教育鼓舞你的男孩
培养优秀男孩细节19:正确处理与男孩的冲突
培养优秀男孩细节20:男孩的心,你要听听
培养优秀男孩细节21:让“父亲教育”回归家庭
培养优秀男孩的88个细节目录
第三章 诚信——立身之根本
培养优秀男孩细节22:让孩子懂得诚信是最高的人格
培养优秀男孩细节23:教育孩子做一个诚实的人
培养优秀男孩细节24:引导孩子养成诚信的人格
培养优秀男孩细节25:父母要杜绝孩子说谎
培养优秀男孩细节26:培养开朗乐观的男孩
培养优秀男孩细节27:引导男孩树立正确的竞争意识
培养优秀男孩细节28:让孩子为自己的承诺负责
培养优秀男孩细节29:培养孩子勇于承认错误的习惯

第四章 创造无极限,激发无限可能
培养优秀男孩细节30:发现和发挥男孩的优势
培养优秀男孩细节31:帮孩子找一个对手
培养优秀男孩细节32:及早对孩子进行科学启蒙教育
培养优秀男孩细节33:打造激励环境,提倡正面激励
培养优秀男孩细节34:精神奖励比物质奖励更重要
培养优秀男孩细节35:激励要具体,在细节上下功夫
培养优秀男孩细节36:鼓励男孩异想天开
培养优秀男孩细节37:男孩淘气是聪明的表现
培养优秀男孩细节38:将男孩的好奇心引导到求知愿望上
培养优秀男孩细节39:常跟孩子谈心,强化孩子积极心态

第五章 做事有章法,处事有分寸
培养优秀男孩细节40:不要事事依赖别人
培养优秀男孩细节41:做事要有计划
培养优秀男孩细节42:习惯于认认真真做事
培养优秀男孩细节43:专注是一种良好的做事习惯
培养优秀男孩细节44:克服拖拖拉拉的做事习惯
培养优秀男孩细节45:凡事要积极主动
培养优秀男孩细节46:吾日三省吾身
培养优秀男孩细节47:让坚韧成为一种习惯
培养优秀男孩细节48:急于求成不如耐心做事
培养优秀男孩细节49:远离小偷小摸的坏习惯

第六章 良好习惯早养成
培养优秀男孩细节50:培养有计划性的男孩
培养优秀男孩细节51:让孩子养成积极主动的习惯
培养优秀男孩细节52:鼓励孩子勇于尝试
培养优秀男孩细节53:培养孩子独立自主的习惯
培养优秀男孩细节54:教育孩子珍惜时间
培养优秀男孩细节55:引导孩子养成良好的用眼卫生习惯
培养优秀男孩细节56:引导孩子按时作息
培养优秀男孩细节57:让孩子养成文明上网的习惯
培养优秀男孩细节58:让孩子习惯于讲卫生
培养优秀男孩细节59:尽早消除孩子与父母同睡的习惯
培养优秀男孩细节60:培养孩子科学理财的习惯
培养优秀男孩细节61:让男孩爱上体育运动

第七章 男孩就是要吃的了苦
培养优秀男孩细节62:男孩得吃点苦
培养优秀男孩细节63:别扶,让他自己站起来
培养优秀男孩细节64:给男孩犯错的权利
培养优秀男孩细节65:减负以后,多让孩子体验生活
培养优秀男孩细节66:男孩要有抗挫折的能力
培养优秀男孩细节67:培养男孩的生存能力
培养优秀男孩细节68:培养孩子的耐心
培养优秀男孩细节69:培养男孩的意志力

第八章 男孩——不哭
培养优秀男孩细节70:影响孩子心理健康的因素
培养优秀男孩细节71:化解孩子的焦躁情绪
培养优秀男孩细节72:发现并防止孩子的自卑心理
培养优秀男孩细节73:让孩子大胆地说出心里话
培养优秀男孩细节74:用温和的建议给孩子的心灵松绑
培养优秀男孩细节75:反思教育中“成年人意识”的剥削
培养优秀男孩细节76:不说伤害孩子的话
培养优秀男孩细节77:别当众揭孩子的短
培养优秀男孩细节78:想办法赢得孩子的合作
培养优秀男孩细节79:做个“懒家长”
培养优秀男孩细节80:培养男孩的自理能力
培养优秀男孩细节81:分床睡是男孩成长的“分水岭”
培养优秀男孩细节82:放手,孩子才会自己行走
培养优秀男孩细节83:让男孩从小参与做家务
培养优秀男孩细节84:给孩子“工作”的体验
培养优秀男孩细节85:不过多地干涉孩子的事情
培养优秀男孩细节86:让他自己去选择
培养优秀男孩细节87:让男孩自己解决矛盾
培养优秀男孩细节88:授之以“鱼”不如授之以“渔”
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《培养优秀男孩的88个细节》:
2.帮助男孩克服恐惧恐惧与喜怒哀乐一样,是人类与生俱来的一种情绪,它的到来我们是无法逃避的,比如生离死别,比如天灾人祸,但个人情绪上的一些有关恐惧的念头,却可以通过自我调节的方式来加以克服。男孩和成年人一样,他们也会感觉到各类恐惧,比如晚上熄灯之后,男孩的卧室就可能变成可怕的地方。三岁的男孩“发现”壁柜里有鬼怪出没,八岁的女孩“看到”潜逃的杀人犯在窗口张望。男孩们的这些恐惧的出现,是他们成长过程中必然伴有的现象,不足为怪,但家长却不能不引起重视。家长应该帮助男孩克服恐惧,使他们能够健康地成长。只是在这里要重申的一点是,帮助男孩克服恐惧,并不就是说将他们与所有可怕的事物隔绝,这既不可能,也无必要。一位心理学家说:“如果男孩完全在父母的庇护下生活,长大了也会很脆弱。一旦灾难或不幸到来,他们就会垮掉,因为他们无力承受,也不知怎样应付。”具体来说,在不同年龄段男孩的恐惧是不同的。
学龄前男孩的恐惧,大多来自于生动的幻觉,所以父母在帮助他们克服恐惧之前,要对他们的幻觉有所理解。男孩到三岁左右,想象力开始发展,而且十分生动,这对他们的智力发育十分有益,但与此同时,各种幻想中的“妖魔鬼怪”也会骚扰他们的心灵。这时父母可以递给他一个手电筒,告诉他只要打开这个就什么也不用怕了,它可以驱除鬼怪。也可以在男孩睡觉时放一些轻柔舒缓的音乐,使他分心,伴他人眠。
还可教他数数,以消除杂念。或者安慰他,不用担心,爸爸妈妈就在隔壁,守护着他的安全。小学生的恐惧,大多是对事实经过自己生动的加工之后产生的。
例如一个二年级的男孩听同学说有个杀人犯越狱逃跑了,就在附近活动。从此,这个男孩晚上就怎么也睡不着觉了。后来父母在和他交谈之后,在他卧室的窗户上按了个铃铛,用绳拦着窗户,告诉他只要铃铛一响,父母就会从隔壁赶来保护他,这个男孩才安稳地睡去。对于这个年龄段的男孩来说,父母应该与男孩多交流,借助一些科学读物增长他们对世界的认识,在看电视时应避免让男孩看暴力镜头,如果男孩的某种恐惧持续难停,父母还需从自己身上找找原因,或许是家庭中的某种不安定因素,导致男孩产生恐惧。
例如,父母关系不和经常吵架。青少年的恐惧很大一部分是因为社交,而父母在帮助男孩克服社交恐惧时,可能也感到相当棘手。因为这时的男孩在穿着打扮、待人接物、婚姻恋爱等问题上,已经有了自己的观点,很少再信奉父母。所以此时家长能做的就是鼓励男孩多交朋友,并在择友上加以指导。通过广泛交友,男孩会发现,与他最好的朋友也有着同样的恐惧。
这样就会明白,自己的社交恐惧并不像想象的那样可怕。
在这里还要向家长说明的一点是,我们不能指望男孩对什么也不惧怕。即使是成年人的我们,同样也会有很多恐惧。我们只要让男孩学会控制和克服恐惧就可以了。当男孩学会控制和克服恐惧之后,他对社会的理性认知就会上升,在做某件事情时就不会存在畏缩的心理。这对打造他们的自信,是很有帮助的。
3.帮助男孩找到自己的长处您应该让男孩树立这样的理念:任何人都不是十全十美的,都会有不懂或不会的地方,但同时也都有比别人出色的地方,大人和小孩都是一样。例如,男孩唱歌跳舞不行,可他画画还可以;男孩数学不行,可他作文写得还不错;男孩语言表达能力不强,但他认识很多字;男孩体育方面弱些,但他心地很善良……只要有足够的耐心,家长就会发现,虽然男孩确实有很多地方比不上别的男孩,但他总有那么一项比别人优秀。对于他的弱项,只要他尽力而为就可以了;对于他的长处,家长就应该不断鼓励,使之更趋于优势地位。所以,此时家长一定要成为男孩坚强的后盾,当他们遭受失败时,我们有责任鼓励他们,教会他们怎么应付困难。
当然,家长在对男孩的某一方面进行夸奖和鼓励时,也要掌握一定的分寸。对于个别男孩,他的自信已经快溢出来了,就不妨在他旁边敲敲边鼓,让他知道“人外有人,天外有天”的道理。自以为是的“超人”男孩,更容易丧失自信。
4.对男孩说:“我相信,你能行!”请一定要相信,这句话所具有的潜在力量用于激励男孩,功效是不可估量的,尤其是在男孩遇到困难而出现退缩畏惧时,家长可以不断强调这句话,用它来鼓励男孩。除此之外,在日常生活中家长还可以让男孩做一些“跳一跳才可以摘到果子”的事情。
例如,如果男孩会用绳子打一个结,那就让他再学着打蝴蝶结;如果男孩会排列书架上的图书,那就再让他学着整理抽屉;如果男孩会折毛巾被,就要求他再学着叠薄被子等。当男孩把生活中的很多“困难”都去体验,去克服了之后,他就会从内心里感受到克服困难的喜悦和成功的快乐,与此同时,在意识中他将会自然而然地产生“我真的行”、“原来我也可以干”的信心。
自信心是支撑一个人做任何事情的原始动力,要让别人发现自己男孩的长处,并且重视他、相信他,家长首先就要帮助他建立对自己的信心,这在家庭教育中是必不可少的一个环节,也是当务之急。
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Yami is committed to provide our customers with a peace of mind when purchasing from us. Most items shipped from Yamibuy.com can be returned within 30 days of receipt of shipment (For Food, Beverages, Snacks, Dry Goods, Health supplements, Fresh Grocery and Perishables Goods, within 7 days of receipt of shipment due to damages or quality issues; To ensure that every customer receives safe and high-quality products, we do not provide refunds or returns for beauty products once they have been opened or used, except in the case of quality issues; Some products may have different policies or requirements associated with them, please see below for products under special categories, or contact Yami Customer Service for further assistance).
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If you choose “Redeem automatically” as your delivery method, your gift card balance will be reload automatically after your order has been processed successfully;

If you choose “Send to Email”as your delivery method, the card number and CVV will be sent to the email address automatically;

Any user can use the card number and CVV to redeem the gift card, please keep your gift card information safely. If you have any trouble receiving email, please contact Yami customer service;

Yami gift card can be used to purchase both Yami owned or Marketplace products;

Yami gift card will never expire;

Yami gift card balance does not have to be used up at once;

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Gift card that has already been consumed is non-refundable.

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Yami Free Shipping over $49
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Yami Ships from United States

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  • United States

    Standard Shipping is $5.99 (Excluding Alaska & Hawaii). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    Local Express is $5.99 (Available in Parts of CA, NJ, MA & PA). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    2-Day Express (Includes Alaska & Hawaii) starts at $19.99.

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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Yami Cross-store Free Shipping over $69
Yami 30-days Return

Yami-China FC

Yami has a consolidation warehouse in China which collects multiple sellers’ packages and combines to one order. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to your door. Cross-store free shipping over $69.

Return Policy

You may return products within 30 days upon receiving the products. Sellers take responsibilities for any wrong shipment or missing items. Packing needs to be unopened for any other than quality issues return. We promise to pack carefully, but because goods are taking long journey to destinations, simple damages to packaging may occur. Any damages not causing internal goods quality problems are not allowed to return. If you open the package and any quality problem is found, please contact customer service within three days after receipt of goods.

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Yami Consolidation Service Shipping Fee $9.99(Free shipping over $69)

Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. Due to the pandemic, the delivery time may be delayed by about 5 days. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

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Free shipping over 69
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Yami Consolidated Shipping $9.99(Free shipping over $69)


Seller will ship the orders within 1-2 business days. The logistics time limit is expected to be 7-15 working days. In case of customs clearance, the delivery time will be extended by 3-7 days. The final receipt date is subject to the information of the postal company.

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All items are excluding from any promotion or points events on Yamibuy.com

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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