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总会有个你,温暖我世界

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1.不要怕,时光总会让你遇见属于自己的温暖;
2.珍惜所有的遇见,感恩所有的成全;
3.世界微凉,总会有人来温暖你;
4.在你一生中出现的人,都带着使命而来,他一定会教你些什么;
5.喜欢你的人给了你安慰和鼓励;你喜欢的人让你学会了付出和坚持;你不喜欢的人教会了你包容和尊重;不喜欢你的人让你知道了反思和成长……
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不管这个世界怎样,是微微泛着凉意还是一望无际的苍茫,我们既然彼此相遇,我们就成为了彼此生命里的一部分,即便最终会是惊鸿一瞥般短暂,却因为在那个时刻我们曾许给彼此温热,陪伴彼此走完属于我们共同的一段,我们就有了力量和勇气。有故事的木黎,为你讲述在爱情、职场与生活中经历的种种,这些或温暖、或明亮、或孤单、或疯狂的故事,既是作者对自己人生的记录,也可能在你迷惘寂寞时予你安慰。
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木黎,在西班牙萨拉曼卡大学(Universidad De Salamanca)及巴塞罗那自治大学(Universidad Autonoma De Barcelona)留学四年,分别获得社会学和出版编辑学硕士学位,现居浙江。曾在拉美阿塔卡马沙漠里灰头土脸地工作,也曾于墨西哥被围墙包裹的小屋里寻找光明。在工作中是百折不挠的女白领,在生活中是不写不痛快的段子手,在旅行中是不知疲倦的苦行僧。
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第一辑爱,不只是一阵疯
上帝请赐给我一件Pronovia
有的单身,其实是自己在作
致狠狠伤过我们的前任
爱上风一样的某人
其实你并不懂我
前任让我更爱你
论异地恋的成功方法
愿所有常见如初见
等下去,值得
第二辑愿每次回忆,对自己都不曾负疚
傻白甜辛德瑞拉小姐的崛起
跳槽吧,如果你真正爱的并不是手里的那一摊
职场熬成婆:献给每个在奋斗路上奋不顾身的人 Part.I
职场熬成婆:献给每个在奋斗路上奋不顾身的人 Part.II
写给在奋斗路上摔了跤的姑娘们
减肥可不只是减赘肉那么肤浅
谁抓花了年轻的脸
菜鸟记:他画的大饼你爱吃吗
我们成就我们自己
梦与现实的差距
第三辑用心灵之光照亮前程
只有孤独过才能聊人生吗
真伪女神的生活态度,只差“随心”了吧
ABCD,我选Escape的E
到底什么才叫真Low
三十层的红酒和地下一层的生煎
那就让一切来得及
情商低是个什么鬼
打动你心,容易吗
当我想起你
旅行教会我的事
后记
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致狠狠伤过我们的前任
闺蜜几个碰在一起,不知道怎么的就会开始讨论感情问题。
女人么,在一起要是不八卦这些事情,那才是怪事儿。东拉西扯是女人的天性,这个特性就好像男人天生喜欢喝完酒就开始吹牛一样自然而然。
不知道哪一个先扯出了自己的前任,于是山洪暴发,女人们开始吐苦水。
一个做高级码农的闺蜜很颓地说:“你知道我前任怎么跟我说分手的吗?说我对他太好了!他居然拿这个茬儿跟我说分手,是不是找抽?你说他一个普通事业单位的,要钱没钱要房没房要车没车,我公积金都快赶上他工资了,我啥都不求,就要跟他好好过日子,对他好,啥也不在乎,他居然说跟我分手是因为我对他太好了,还说跟我这样的姑娘在一起觉得生活没意思,没有挑战性。他有本事早说啊,我保证每天拿皮带抽他一顿。”
一个做文员的朋友也跟着叹气:“我就不喜欢特别粘人的那种,我跟男同事聊QQ他都给我脸色看,你说这是为什么?我跟男同事交代交代办公室的事儿,难道让我花电话费不用流量吗?再说我打电话他就能高兴了吗?还死皮赖脸问我要我的QQ密码,说情侣之间要是没秘密,这个是可以共享的!他要不要连我的银行卡密码也顺便问去啊?再亲密的两个人是不是也要隐私的。我一忙起来没时间接电话他就跟追踪热线似的,我不接就一直打,有一次我就干挺着把手机放眼前,两个小时响了三十多次,我差点儿摔手机!”
一个自己单干的朋友貌似也不好过:“哎,大家都是不容易啊,我之前那个什么都好,就是有个鬼一样的前女友,你说你要真喜欢以前的那个你就去吃回头草啊!找我干什么?三天两头嘴上跟我唠叨原来那个怎么样怎么样,还要跟我比一比,我受不了了发脾气他说我不大气,说他人都在我这边了,不过就是为了让我变得更完美更好,听起来好像那么回事儿似的,可是有几个正常女人愿意跟那个阴魂不散的妹子比高低啊,那不是没事儿闲的吗?”
只有Amy没说话。
看起来漫不经心没故事的人,不见得真那么简单,他的故事很可能三言两语讲不完,索性就憋在心里,不与外人道。
Amy很爱她的前任,这个我是知道的。
那时候Amy上大学,她男朋友在另一个城市念书,为了每周能看到他,她绿皮车四五个小时晃荡过去,还当没事人似的笑着出现在他们寝室门口,天知道她差点儿就被推小车卖货的给碾死。
那时我们都是穷学生,买条Lee的牛仔裤是件很奢侈的事情。她知道那男孩儿喜欢,花了大半个月的生活费买来给他送过去。到了下半月没钱了,姐们倍儿好面子,不好意思问家里人要,就挨个寝室里祸害,这边儿蹭点儿米线,那边蹭点儿炒饭,你家一口我家一口,过了一个星期,大家见她来串门都先问:“长老你是几袋的?帮里事务还忙吗?爱吃包子还是爱喝粥?”
有一次Amy半个多月没来上课,那时候大四,课其实不是很多,但是半个月无声无息地消失,同学们还是惦记,偶尔会问起。同学间交流不出来个一二三四,合伙跑去问辅导员,说:“Amy是拿到Offer了吗?要不就是去实习了吗?还是跑到外地考试去了啊?怎么活不见人死不见尸的?”
辅导员吱吱唔唔,看起来好想知道又好像不知道,死活不给痛快,嘴巴严实得很。
等Amy再次出现在大家面前,她瘦了一大圈,好像大病了一场。
不知道哪儿来的小道消息,传Amy其实是去堕胎了。她大学毕业准备考研,她男朋友觉得年纪太小不适合毕业就结婚,再说大学生娃听起来总是不太好,于是Amy和他凑了钱,做掉了孩子。但是她本身体质差,静养了一段日子才恢复。
当时我没法分辨这故事的真假,可Amy看起来确实气色不怎么好,虽然跟大家还是说说笑笑,冷笑话讲的比谁都欢实,混吃混喝的本事有增无减,但笑过吃过了之后,偶尔看到她一个人走在校园里,形单影只的身边并不见热闹。
毕业后她还是这么对待男朋友,一心一意的,什么也不在乎。他想要的就是她想要的,他想买的就是她想买的,他想得到的就是她想得到的,她把自己的人生建立在他开心之上,好像只要他开心她这辈子也跟着功德圆满了。朋友们劝她爱一个人全力以赴是很好,但是也要忠于自己,别忘记爱自己。不过Amy似乎听不进去。恋爱中的女人,头昏是难免的。
直到有一天,她偶然间看了到他忘记关的QQ,有朋友的头像在角落不断闪烁,她好奇就打开来看一眼,立刻崩溃了。
她男朋友跟一个女网友暧昧到露骨,两个人一副热恋中打情骂俏的口吻,互称“老公&老婆”。最让Amy伤心的是,他在某段对话里,很冷淡的说:“她啊,人傻傻的,我就是现在不知道该怎么跟她说分手,再说她也为我花了不少钱,你说这东西怎么算得清呢,你再等等我,我想想该怎么说!”
后面还不忘补一个飞吻的表情。
Amy当时就能感觉自己的指甲抠进肉里的感觉。他居然觉得他们之间算不清楚的只是钱!她的情义呢?他一个字儿都没提,她觉得自己是天底下最缺心眼的傻瓜。她几乎没有底线地爱一个人,结果又换来点儿什么呢?
确定分手的时候。朋友们轮流安慰Amy。陪她吃饭,陪她逛街,陪她看电影,陪她唱卡拉OK。
你看你看,你男朋友有什么好,两个人异地恋,一年见不上几面,他陪你的日子肯定没我们多。大伙儿忙着当Amy的王小贱,在这一刻化身广播电台知心大姐,倾听你的心事陪你磨平情伤。
作为Amy的朋友,我当然也被拉出去过。两个人看了有生以来第一次4D电影,差点被椅子颠死。我这个没出息的人出了电影院腿都软了,我跟Amy说:“姐,我请你去喝一杯吧!我真的走不了了,再走我就直接跪了。”
Amy有点儿过意不去,跟我找了咖啡店坐下来。两个人沉默了好一会儿。
她跟我说:“Rebecca,我以后再也不能怀孕了。你知道么,那一年我做的时候没有钱,找的是间小医院,本来就不怎么样,而且我自身体质也不好,做之前医生就说,以后可能不太会怀孕了。那时候他说没关系,说我们之间不需要孩子来维系,我们相爱就够了。我他妈居然也信了!”
Amy眼睛望着窗外头推着婴儿车的年轻妈妈,声音都有点儿模糊了。
“Rebecca,我想结婚。你知道我多想大学毕业就结婚吗?我不是什么女强人,没什么理想抱负,我就想找个好人一起好好生活。”
我愣在那里,不知道该说些什么,我诧异,那一年的小道消息,原来是真的。
许多女人都经历过人渣,谁年轻的时候都保不准遇人不淑什么的,被狠狠地伤过之后,无外乎两条路,过得更好,过得更糟。我们都知道选A正确,无奈道理再明白,彻底涂黑选项卡之前,可能性都是50%,眼花涂错也不是没可能。
在感情里,认真的人,伤的比较重。有的人觉得分手就跟放了一个屁一样不值得一提,但是对于有些人来说,分一次,就跟死一次差不多。
Amy爱的前任,甚至牺牲了一个女人做母亲的权利。可是那个不成熟的男人,并没有觉得这是什么要紧的事情。他的心智当然也担负不起一个做父亲的责任。
我想如果Amy真的毕了业就跟他结婚,也不见得会很幸福。
Amy是这类女人,她不习惯为自己留点儿余地。
把未来跟另一个人捆绑在一起,一旦失去,就是全部。除非,不失去,但是谁能保证,曾经美好的东西会一直一直留在你身边,不会消失?
还是那句话,感情的长短取决于两个人,一厢情愿这种东西,既没回响也没劲。
后来有一个嫁的很好的姑娘给Amy介绍对象,她婉拒了,那姑娘急了,就教育她说:“Amy,你这么多年一直单着还行?你都快赶不上社会变化的节奏了,你得去恋爱的,你要不断地寻找最适合你的那一个,不适合就换一个,这点儿决心你都下不了,你谈什么幸福?谈一次就成的是有的啦,但是更多人都是试过了好几任才知道什么叫合适,你别用小概率要求所有人行吗?”
Amy还没下好决心接受下一段,她迷惑,她当然迷惑,感情的好坏她都见过,哪一面才是真实的她说不清,但是伤口就在那儿,难道当它不存在吗?再说真心不是无限量自动生长的,它珍贵就是因为这个东西用着用着可能就没了。
以前我们认识个姑娘,恋爱了几十次,最后随便找个人都能谈一小段时间,我们感慨她复原神速,但她神秘兮兮地告诉我们:“玩玩么,不需要真心的啊。”
但不是每个人都有这种不痛不痒的技能,没心没肺的凑合,到头来还不是一次又一次分开么!短爱不是不可以,你只要玩儿得起,你去这么做一点儿问题都没有,但是如果你是个玩儿不起虚情假意的姑娘,那你明显不适合这类消遣。
但是我还是劝Amy说“去见见吧,你值得更好的人。”这话就算是没营养的陈词滥调,也的确就是那时候的由衷感叹,她是个好姑娘,真的是个好姑娘。
当然,我也告诉她,这一次,我们要学着在感情里留有余地,我们的梦想不能再是一个男人一个家一个小孩,我们的梦想我们的愿望,最好转向我们自己,不然,我们还是输不起的那类姑娘,爱一次,就像死一次。
……
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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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