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1.魅力养成指南。《别让不懂幽默害了你》包含了生动有趣的语言技巧,超级实用的口才艺术,高明灵活的生活哲学。懂幽默,不寂寞;懂幽默,有欢乐。战胜呆板、远离乏味,精于交往,绽放魅力。
2.受人欢迎的口才课。为什么和有些人在一起总是这么有趣?如何变成有趣的人?如果你有这样的疑惑,那么是时候翻阅这本书了。这是一本有趣、有料、有水平的口才魔法书,既可以当作操作手册,又可以当作睡前故事。而且,它适用于一切不需要悲伤的场合。
3.幽默的实用价值:幽默使人舒适;幽默让人放松;幽默有助于交流;幽默可以战胜恐惧;幽默可以驱除抑郁;幽默可以减轻疼痛;幽默可以缓解压力;幽默可以传播幸福;幽默可以培养乐观※幽默提升免疫系统。但是请注意:幽默≠低级趣味;幽默≠口味重;幽默≠讽刺。
4.各种业界,莫不对幽默感给予很高的评价。实际上,幽默称得上是一个具有亲和力的“形象大使”。因为,很多工商业界高层的负责人,都运用幽默来改变他们的形象,甚至改善大家对整个公司的看法。每一阶层的领导人和经理人在人事的甄选与训练上,也转而向幽默力量来求助。


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幽默在商业界具有相当的价值。60%的人相信,幽默感能决定一个人事业成功的程度。弗洛伊德认为幽默的人是能适应的人。幽默大师被认为是具有人情味,给人带来快乐的人,幽默话语蕴涵着很强的人文精神。不难看出,幽默交际能力是情商的一个重要组成部分。切斯特顿(G.K.Chesterton,1874-1936)曾经写道:“天使能够飞翔是因为他们能让自己变得轻巧。”《别让不懂幽默害了你》可以帮你调动幽默的神奇力量来成功,成为极具亲和力的人。
幽默以愉悦的方式向他人表达思想的高度与真诚,它就像一座与外界沟通的桥,可以填平人与人之间的鸿沟,可以为自己减负,可以为他人送去欢乐。《别让不懂幽默害了你》汇集了幽默的技巧精华,全方位地向读者阐释了幽默所蕴含的人生智慧,以及如何掌握幽默技巧,修炼成一位出色的幽默大师。


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肖兵,网站推广总监、图书策划、多部励志畅销书的作者。自认为是年轻女性的杀手,可以融化萌妹的暖心男,而他的志愿是写出一部让人震惊的作品来改变世界。虽然每天忙不完的事情让他颇感“亚历山大”,却能幽自己一默,还经常热心地为别人提供人生指导。
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Part1不懂幽默真谛,如何享受快乐的人生
幽默绝不是简单地说笑,而是一种生活002
没有知识的积累,哪来信手拈来的幽默006
使人想一想才发笑的,才是真正的幽默010
不要让低级趣味的搞怪拉低你的格调013
注意现场气氛,别不分场合地开玩笑016
让你的幽默符合听众的口味019
用一段适合的文字,讲一个适合的笑话022
Part2与微笑谈恋爱,才会有更美好的将来
仔细想想,谁不喜欢和快乐待在一起呢026
献上你的真心和幽默,赢得爱情和芳心030
有缘千里终相见,不懂调情仍枉然034
我爱你,所以我要让你的脸上带着微笑038
爱之幽默像喷泉,相爱容易相处也不难042
甜而不腻的幽默情话,让激情永葆鲜活047
你曾给我爱,我用这爱和笑容送你离开051
Part3送爱人最好的礼物,就是一份好心情
生活中的许多问题,都可以笑着说出来056
我的爱,请不要让你的笑从生活中离开060
做个幽默的爱人,认真体会其中的关爱064
激情逝去,幽默夫妻生活依然倍儿新鲜068
我的心中没有火气,我的生活才有情趣071
幸福缔造法:用耐心和爱心传播幽默情趣075
Part4跟朋友分享快乐,将得到更多的朋友
能给别人带来快乐的人,是更受欢迎的080
不苟言笑让人疏远,幽默自嘲让人亲近083
如果你有趣,可以用这种魅力征服世界087
朋友之间也不要随意开玩笑091
做一个有趣的人,朋友会越来越多095
幽默地沟通能拉近彼此间的感情098
Part5带着你的幽默解围,人生就没有尴尬
帮助别人摆脱囧境,让生活多一点轻松102
遇到任何困境都别愁,巧用幽默笑解忧105
冲突也可以用幽默来解决109
娱人娱己,将尴尬化于无形112
人生哪有不出糗,主动幽自己一默吧116
有了过失别忙道歉,幽默辩解出奇效120
身陷于不利境地时,幽默妙语智解危机123
Part6轻声笑语里说服,让人心甘情愿地接受
太紧张了不好沟通,用幽默语言活跃气氛128
用玩世不恭的态度讲述正正经经的道理131
别太严肃,用幽默的方法打开促销之门134
用幽默委婉指出错误,既不伤人也不伤己137
类比幽默说服使人在笑声中受到教育141
以谬制谬的幽默说服让对方百口难辩145
自相矛盾的辩解:戏剧化的幽默说服术149
Part7生活要多展现微笑,工作要多分享快乐
展现你的幽默力,建立良好的工作关系154
工作中多了幽默,同事之间便少了隔阂158
交谈时来点小幽默,为办公室增添情趣163
男女同事话幽默,千万不要过度167
学习美式幽默,跟你的同事分享欢乐171
做个幽默开朗的员工,赢得上司的赏识175
跟下属打成一片,用幽默打造领导力179
Part8快快乐乐过日子,健健康康度人生
生活是镜子,你对它笑,它就对你笑184
用幽默调理情绪,焦虑抑郁一扫光189
生活平淡如水,何不做个有趣的人193
内心有笑意,幽默感就不会远离196
返璞归真不染尘,不老童心伴一生200
心中常怀喜乐,如身体常驻健康203
不忧不惧,做最快乐的自己206
后记每个人的生活都可以很幽默、很快乐


Book Abstract

注意现场气氛,别不分场合地开玩笑
虽然我们的生活中不能缺少幽默,但是,它并不是无所不在、无所不能的。在运用幽默的时候,我们一定要先考虑场合和对象,在某些特殊场合,假如我们任意而为地幽默的话,那便极有可能需要为自己的幽默付出沉重的代价。尤其是在一些严肃的场合,或面对一些刻板的人,一定要注意幽默的分寸。
商务谈判的场合要求我们郑重、认真地加以对待。在这种场合中,假如我们随意说一些自以为会缓和紧张气氛的小幽默,很可能会让对方觉得我们没有认真地对待这次会议,更严重的,还很可能因此失去非常重要的合作伙伴。
会议室里,两家公司的代表正为了双方的合作进行紧张的谈判。当谈判进行到重要阶段,双方的代表正为一个关键问题不断进行争论之时,甲方公司的秘书却突然插话,说:“假如我们的脸部长时间地僵硬,就会变成名副其实的‘扑克脸’哦,为了大家的形象,我们一起来放松一下吧!”
这话说完之后,现场静默了3秒钟,然后所有人都用奇怪的眼神看着他。
借助幽默来缓和紧张的气氛,本是一件无可厚非的事情,但这位秘书却选择了错误的场合和时间。他不合时宜的幽默不仅让他自己看上去有些滑稽,还会让他的上司觉得他没有认真对待这次会议,从而使自己的职业生涯受到不好的影响。
懂得幽默的人通常都是交际能手,很善于营造良好氛围。他们知道,只有一个良好的环境和氛围才能让事情更好地展开,这样人们才可以轻松愉快地进行工作和生活。所以在幽默高手看来,营造良好的交流氛围是一件非常重要的事情。
在各种社交场合中,一个良好的交流氛围可以融洽彼此的关系,化解不必要的尴尬,使得人际交往活动更加健康积极。
著名评剧女演员曾举办过一次“敬老”的聚会,聚会邀请了齐白石、老舍、梅兰芳等文艺界的著名前辈,其中92岁高龄的齐白石老人由他的看护陪同前来。
齐白石老人坐下后,就拉着新凤霞的手,目不转睛地看着她。过了一会儿,看护担心这样会使新凤霞难为情,就用略带责备的口气对齐白石老人说:“您总看着别人做什么。”
齐白石听了很不高兴:“我都这大把年纪了,为什么不能看她,她生得好看。”老人为了辩解,说得脸都红了。
众人都感到很尴尬。这个时候,新凤霞巧妙地接上了齐白石老人的话题,笑着说:“您老看吧,我是演员,我不怕人看的。”
聚会的紧张气氛突然消失了,新凤霞的话让齐白石老人的心情顿时好了很多,聚会中,在大家的提议下,新凤霞当场拜齐白石老人为干爹,齐白石高兴地笑了。
有些人一开口就能马上形成良好的氛围,有一次,著名作家萧军应邀出席一个会议,他上台讲话的时候,第一句话就使人们发出了微笑:“我叫萧军,是一个出土文物。”
因为萧军的这句话让人们想到他坎坷的人生经历,同时还能体现他文学研究者的身份,形成立竿见影的效果。
演讲氛围也是很重要的,稍有不慎很容易让演讲当堂结束,让举办方颜面尽失,严重时可能导致部分人引咎辞职。
在一次会议上,有一个议员在台上发表很长的一篇演讲。另一个议员觉得他的演讲太没意思,于是小声地提醒他:“请把演讲时间缩短好吗?听众都很不舒服了。”
结果那个演讲的议员误会了,以为被人批评了,于是毫不客气地说:“请你滚出去。”说完继续自己的演讲。
发出提醒的议员大怒,要找演讲的议员进行理论。这时,一旁的柯立芝——时任议长了解了情况。
为了维护会场的和谐氛围,柯立芝幽默地安抚演讲的议员道:“这位先生,您完全不必在意刚才那句话,我翻了我的法律书籍,从头到尾看了一遍,没有发现其中这一条,所以您尽可不必听从他的话。”
这么一句话就把大怒的议员说笑了,现场的紧张气氛顿时得到了缓和。
……


Introduction

讲到幽默,许多人都觉得那是一种语言技巧。而我在阅读一些幽默的书籍时,也看到大量调剂人际关系的幽默智慧和语言艺术。毫无疑问,在讲求实用的现代人眼里,幽默是一种缔造良好人际关系的语言工具。但是,据我所知,怀着发展人际关系的目的而功利地接触幽默,不仅无益于人生,还可能带来不利的影响。
因为把幽默当作工具,只能接触幽默之皮毛,而不能领悟幽默之真谛。此诚可谓丢了西瓜捡芝麻。最终所学来的所谓幽默,往往都是一些低级的笑话。
幽默不是低级笑话,那么“幽默”到底是什么呢?“幽默”由英文“Humour”一词音译而来。最初将幽默引入中国的是林语堂,林语堂先生解释说:“凡善于幽默的人,其谐趣必愈幽隐;而善于鉴赏幽默的人,其欣赏尤在于内心静默的理会,大有不可与外人道之滋味。与粗鄙的笑话不同,幽默愈幽愈默而愈妙。”
可以说,幽默是人类智慧的产物,是一种高品位的情感活动,任何平淡庸劣的价值取向和因循固陋的思维方式都不能称之为幽默。
在跟几位同伴一起孤筏渡重洋后,挪威探险家托尔海雅达尔感触至深地写道:“对一个探险集体来说,在冒险航行的恶劣条件下,开开玩笑、说说笑话的重要性绝不亚于救生圈。”
对幽默的重要性,海雅达尔作了极富幽默感的描述。的确,不管是身负重任的领导者,还是普普通通的平民百姓,幽默感都是一种不可或缺的素质。
恩格斯说过:“幽默是在智慧、教养和道德等方面具有优越感的表现。”幽默的话语不仅具有愉悦、美感作用和批评教育作用,还具有讽刺的作用,能让你的生活变得更加丰富多彩、生机盎然。
美国哲学家帕克说:“幽默的目的是审美。”列宁曾经说:“幽默是一种优美的、健康的品质。”幽默的培养,不仅在于口齿伶俐,还在于个人正确人生观的修养,还包括被看成是一个人的优点。
幽默以愉悦的方式向他人表达思想的高度与真诚,它就像一座与外界沟通的桥,可以填平人与人之间的鸿沟,可以为自己减负,可以为他人送去欢乐。俄国文学家契诃夫说:“不懂得开玩笑的人是没有希望的人,这样的人即使额高七寸、聪明绝顶,也算不上真正有智慧的人。”
我认为,幽默的重要性还应该更进一步地强调:幽默是一种很有品质的生活方式,是一种值得每个人追求的快乐、健康、充满正能量的人生。我写这么一本书,希望改变人们对幽默的工具化看法,让人看到幽默的真谛,领悟幽默人生的活法。
所以,本书不只是讲幽默的语言艺术,还讲幽默的人生态度和生活方式,告诉你如何才能活得开心,活得自在。我希望每个人都能和幽默在一起,驱散困苦的愁云,使周遭充满愉悦;我希望每个人都能和微笑做朋友,变得浪漫满怀。
我更希望,我们的幽默不仅能够给自己带来快乐,还能够帮助别人拥有幸福和美满,我希望整个世界都能因为幽默的存在而笑意盈盈。


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  • United States

    Standard Shipping is $5.99 (Excluding Alaska & Hawaii). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    Local Express is $5.99 (Available in Parts of CA, NJ, MA & PA). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    2-Day Express (Includes Alaska & Hawaii) starts at $19.99.

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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Yami Cross-store Free Shipping over $69
Yami 30-days Return

Yami-China FC

Yami has a consolidation warehouse in China which collects multiple sellers’ packages and combines to one order. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to your door. Cross-store free shipping over $69.

Return Policy

You may return products within 30 days upon receiving the products. Sellers take responsibilities for any wrong shipment or missing items. Packing needs to be unopened for any other than quality issues return. We promise to pack carefully, but because goods are taking long journey to destinations, simple damages to packaging may occur. Any damages not causing internal goods quality problems are not allowed to return. If you open the package and any quality problem is found, please contact customer service within three days after receipt of goods.

Shipping Information

Yami Consolidation Service Shipping Fee $9.99(Free shipping over $69)

Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. Due to the pandemic, the delivery time may be delayed by about 5 days. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

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Free shipping over 69
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Yami Consolidated Shipping $9.99(Free shipping over $69)


Seller will ship the orders within 1-2 business days. The logistics time limit is expected to be 7-15 working days. In case of customs clearance, the delivery time will be extended by 3-7 days. The final receipt date is subject to the information of the postal company.

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Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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