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《男孩为何要“穷”着养·女孩为何要“富”着养全集》上市以来，受到了广大读者的认可和厚爱，引起了强烈的共鸣。为了满足读者便于阅读和收藏的需求，特推出全集。以飨读者。
男孩“穷”着养，主旨在人格品质的塑造，女孩“富”着养，着意在气质修养的培养。
男孩像山，将来要顶天立地；女孩像水，将来要滋润整个世界。

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“播下一个行动，收获一种习惯；播下一种习惯，收获一种性格；播下一种性格，收获一种命运”男孩“穷”养就是要让男孩从小多历练，多明白生活的艰辛，将来能够肩负重任从小养成的习惯会伴随人一生，在孩子成长初期培养他有爱心、乐于助人、正直善良、勤俭节约的品质，会使他受益终身，成为蕴藏在他内心深处的取之不尽的资本。“推动摇篮的手，就是推动世界的手”。女性的素质决定着整个民族的素质女孩子的品质.小则关乎一个人的人生，大则关乎整个民族的命运，高贵典雅的女孩子，就有富贵祥和的命运，能使自己的周围产生安乐稳定的氛围；卑贱狭隘的女孩子，就有；妻惨悲凉的命运，使自己的周围蒙上晦暗飘摇的阴影，所以，女孩，就是要高贵，女孩，就要富着养。

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自古雄才多磨难，从来纨绔少伟男。
——古语

最是那一低头的温柔，像一朵水莲花不胜凉风的娇羞。
——徐志摩《沙扬娜拉》

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第一章受“穷”是福
为什么要“穷”养男孩
“穷”养男孩的真正内涵
男孩，再富也要“穷”着养
父母不能心太软，把所有问题都替孩子扛
让“蛋壳心理”远离男孩
舍不得让男孩吃苦，将来他会更苦

第二章从来纨绔少伟男
不要给男孩太多的物质享受
苦难成就辉煌的人生
杜绝男孩乱花钱的习惯
正确引导男孩的攀比心理
让男孩明白坐享其成是一种耻辱
溺爱是男孩成长的毒药
要花钱，自己挣
培养男孩勤俭节约的品质
财产不能保男孩富贵平安

第三章 “穷”途末路始奋起
经历挫折洗礼的男孩最有出息
跌倒了，自己爬起来
挫折和痛苦是生命的里程碑
教会男孩与挫折握手言欢
让男孩明白挫折是生活的一部分
鼓励男孩战胜挫折
增强男孩受挫后的恢复能力

第四章改造任性的“小皇帝”
增强男孩的自我控制能力
浮躁的习惯必须要克服
“任性而为”不可取
粗心马虎要不得
培养男孩抵制诱惑的能力
懒散是男孩成长的障碍
切莫成为粗俗之人
别沉迷于“电子海洛因”——网络游戏
拒绝茶毒生命的杀手——香烟

第五章 “穷”则无畏
勇敢的男孩才具有魅力
胆怯的男孩是失去光芒的太阳
放手让男孩向前冲
激发男孩内心的勇气
强化男孩的生存技能
告诉男孩不要害怕竞争
敢于拒绝，勇于说不
给孩子犯错误的权利
历经磨炼的男孩最勇敢

第六章要帮助而不要“包办”
给男孩独立的空问和机会
让男孩学会自立
尊重孩子，对男孩抱有信心
让男孩做自己能做的事
给男孩自己选择的权利
培养男子汉，从家务活做起
给男孩一个独立的机会
男孩，要有自己的见解
让男孩独立解决问题

第七章让孩子为自己的过失“买单”
责任感是男孩肩头的徽章
让男孩学会道歉
别让诚实毁于责骂
告诉男孩，这是你的责任
好汉做事好汉当
克服男孩经常找借口的习惯
从小培养男孩的责任心
让男孩自己认识过错

第八章儿子，别为小事斤斤计较
做一个宽容大度的小绅士
让男孩学会原谅别人
宽容是一种男子汉的风度
尊重别人就是尊重自己
让男孩学会控制自己的情绪
让男孩学会善待他人
让男孩学会理解他人
教男孩学会谦让
让男孩不要斤斤计较于小事

第九章不管遭遇什么，你总可以从中找到快乐
用乐观点亮男孩的心灯
培养男孩乐观的心态
擦去孩子心灵上的尘垢
正确引导男孩的好胜心
赶走抑郁，做一个快乐的大男孩
培养男孩的幽默感
建立快乐和谐的家庭氛围
鼓励男孩追求梦想
让儿子坚定信念：天生我才必有用

第十章别疼爱出一个自私鬼
让男孩学会爱和感恩
让男孩学会给予
帮助男孩克服自私心理
鼓励男孩帮助别人
让男孩懂得分享
不要认为别人的付出是理所当然
男孩要善良，但不能懦弱
爱心，会让男子汉更具生命质感

下篇女孩为何要“富”着养
第一章女孩，就是要高贵
第一章天赐的公主，人间的天使
第三章爱是最好的养料
第四章最美是气质
第五章献给玫瑰的第一桶金
第六章女孩独立日
第七章性格完善之旅
第八章送给女儿护身符
第九章支付情感培养费
第十章为孩子架起艺术的天梯

Book Abstract

一位母亲在痛心地反思自己对孩子的教育时说道：“孩子现在好吃懒做，成绩不理想，喜欢上网玩游戏，在高档商场花钱如流水，导致这些坏现象的原因都是金钱，都是金钱惹的祸。”可见，杜绝孩子乱花钱的习惯，引导孩子正确使用金钱，是父母义不容辞的责任。一对年轻的父母带着刚上二年级的儿子去逛街。在一个繁华的路口，有一位老奶奶正在卖报纸。父亲从口袋里掏出5元钱交给男孩，让他去买10份报纸。男孩买回晚报，父母一起跟他商量：按原价把报纸卖出去，看看我们能不能很快卖完。男孩在父母的支持与帮助下，费了很长时间才把10份晚报卖出去之后，父母让儿子去问卖报的老奶奶，一份报纸能赚多少钱。孩子从老奶奶那里知道，卖一份报纸只能赚几分钱。他算了一笔账，花了这么长时间才能赚几毛钱，而且要费很多辛苦和口舌。“爸爸妈妈，我以后可不能随便花钱了，挣钱太不容易了。”父母肯定了孩子的想法，及时表扬了他。这个男孩后来很懂得节俭上例中的父母经过认真思考，采取了切实有效的方法，让儿子明白了赚钱的不易，他们是家庭教育的有心人现在，很多男孩不懂得节俭，乱花钱、随意浪费的现象相当严重。很多拿着压岁钱的中小学生请客、送礼、聚会、K歌表现出来的那种比阔气的“成熟”让人惊讶。一位高二的学生寒假过后，刚一开学就频繁参加同学的聚餐，近一千多元压岁钱全部花光。当父母责备他乱花钱时，他振振有词地说：“我们班同学家境都太一般化了，同学聚会只能AA制。邻班的同学聚会才荣耀呢，有个同学的爸爸是大款，人家自己掏腰包请同学吃了一顿大餐。”现在的孩子不会挣钱，却越来越会花钱，而且丝毫不体谅家长的辛苦，这种现象不能不引起每位家长的深思。
……

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《男孩为何要“穷”着养》与《女孩为何要“富”着养》自2009年年初问世以来，受到了广大家长的一致肯定，产生了巨大的反响。不少读者打来电话，说这两册书中对“穷养男孩，富养女孩”的阐述和指导令他们受益匪浅。一些热心的读者还通过电子邮件的方式，将自己教育孩子时的感受和体会详细地反馈给我们。许多读者不止一次写信询问我们能否出版一本全集，以便在教育孩子的过程中，能够根据孩子性别的差异加以系统的指导。
能够得到广大读者朋友的支持和青睐，能够将“穷养男孩，富养女孩”的教育理念传递给更多的家长朋友们，这是我们的荣幸。为此，我们特意将《男孩为何要“穷”着养》《女孩为何要“富”着养》做成全集，以飨读者。中国自古以来就有“穷养男孩，富养女孩”的说法。这句话被当成是家教的“金科玉律”，是有一定道理的。其实，这句话提到的“穷”和“富”，侧重的并不是物质上的“穷”“富”，而是先进的教育观念和丰富的教育资源。以男孩为例，性别给了男孩巨大的能量，因此，父母应根据男孩的天性给予他们正确的教育和引导。男儿如石，让他们多受点穷、吃些苦，才能磨炼他们的意志，锻炼他们的能力。男儿需要独立，让他们学会独立思考、独立决策，才能摆脱依赖性；给他们独立成长的空间，才能让他们学会按照一定的方式获得信息，尊重他人。

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