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《一本好书培养一个优秀女孩》结合众多教育实例,全面分析了女孩的独特的个性特征与心理特征。并针对女孩的性别特征、成长过程中经常出现的问题,提出了更富有针对性的指导。
美国著名作家塞缪尔·斯迈尔斯曾经说过:女人的品质将决定世界的未来。一个无品无德的女孩子,不光会对社会造成不好的影响,同时还会对下一代造成一种无形的伤害,这样的人,当然会受到社会的排斥、人们的鄙视。相反,一个品性清奇、蕙质兰心的女孩子却会让人倍加推崇。因此,培养孩子优良的品德,等于为孩子的社会生活能力加分。
让老师父母都放心的贴心书优秀的女孩是一块美玉,正确的教育方法是一把精美的刻刀,经过刻刀的雕琢,美玉才能发出夺目的光泽。
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优秀的女孩是一块美玉,正确的教育方法是一把精美的刻刀,经过刻刀的雕琢,美玉才能发出夺目的光泽。
本书结合众多教育实例,全面分析了女孩的独特的个性特征与心理特征。并针对女孩的性别特征,成长过程中经常出现的问题,提出了更富有针对性的指导。
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第一章 女孩——和男孩有着不一样的世界
并不是穿了西装就是绅士,并不是生了孩子就会做父母。在孩子的教育问题上,从来没有失败的孩子,只有失败的父母。任何让父母感到头痛的问题都是由于父母的教育方法不当日积月累而造成的。女孩尤其如此,女孩和男孩有着不一样的内心、情感、甚至包括思考问题的方式等,所以身为女孩的父母,首先就要进入那个神奇的世界里,了解她们的所思所想。
1.和男孩不一样的内心世界
2.女孩更渴望获得父母的爱
3.妈妈是女儿的“贴心小棉袄”
4.父亲是女儿的参天大树
5.另类女孩需要另类的爱
6.引导女孩走自己的道路
7.永远不要暗示女孩“你是弱者”
8.为女孩“减负”
9.寻找“笨女儿”的突破口

第二章 沟通——用爱去聆听女孩的心声
俗话说,人心隔肚皮,做事两不知。人与人之间需要沟通,沟通才能理解和信赖。同样,父母和女孩之间也需要沟通。父母和女孩进行沟通和交流,就是父母用爱聆听女孩心声的一种行为表现。聆听女孩,给与女孩更多的爱与呵护,理解和尊重女孩,做女孩的忠实听众和朋友,和女孩一起成长。
10.爱也要说出来
11.父母犯错也要向女儿道歉
12.给女孩一个宽松的环境
13.永远不要私自翻看女儿的日记和信件
14.唠叨的父母讨人厌
15.和女儿一起成长
16.女儿是母亲的影子
17.父亲是女儿永远的偶像
18.好女孩更需要赏识和夸奖
19.父母的理解和宽容帮助女孩健康地成长
20.和女儿做好心灵的沟通
21.为女孩塑造和谐美好的家庭氛围
22.做女儿最忠实的听众
23.和女儿做朋友

第三章 心灵——教育女孩做一位善良的公主
古人说,善有善报,恶有恶报。对于善的追求一直是人们一个不曾放弃的做人标准。对于女孩子来说,善良是她们最本质的素养,也是最可宝贵的财富之一。善良的女孩,她们心里都住着一个天使,她们是爱的使者,懂得宽容和谅解,不追逐名利,对于处于困境中的人怀着同情之心,能够给予及时的帮助。
24.选择爱,选择成功
25.每个女孩心里都住着一位天使
26.不要让女孩过早涉足名利场合
27.不要让女孩过于重视外在美
28.带女孩多接触大自然的美好
29.培养女孩的爱心
30.让女孩学会宽容

第四章 品德——美德是女孩一生的必修课
品德的高低决定着一个人素质的高低,也决定着一个人是不是能够找到人生的意义,能不能树立正确的人生观、价值观和世界观。同样,拥有好的品德也是一个女孩子一生的必修课。具有美德,女孩就会懂得自尊自爱,就能够自立自强,也才会知道什么才是真正的美;具有美德,女孩会更加礼貌谦逊,能够正确地对待自己和别人,快乐地迎接每一天,做一个孝敬长辈的好孩子。
31.自尊自爱是女孩必学的第一课
32.教女儿欣赏真正的美
33.帮女孩消除嫉妒心理
34.让女孩成为孝顺的孩子
35.正确对待女孩的错误
36.快乐地迎接每天的日出
37.不要让女儿与孤僻为伍
38.教女孩不做刁蛮公主
39.孝敬长辈的女孩才能被人爱

第五章 意志——坚强勇敢是女孩一生的财富
女孩子一直都被认为是软弱和胆怯的一个群体,胆小懦弱似乎成了她们天生的代名词。因此,父母需要培养她们具有一个坚强的意志,让她们告别自卑、胆怯和软弱。意志坚强,女孩才可以更从容地应对挫折和坎坷,才不会遇到困难就轻言放弃,才会找到自信,最终获得自己的成功。
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第六章 习惯——好的习惯成就好孩子
第七章 气质——把你的女孩培养成小淑女
第八章 学习——不要把女孩培养成学习机器
第九章 包容——和女孩一起走过青春期
第十章 交际——让女孩在社会上如鱼得水
第十一章 教育——是一门不能忽视的艺术
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1.和男孩不一样的内心世界
人们常说:女人是水做的,男人是泥做的。这其中包含了很深的道理,水和泥是地球上两种必不可少的东西,是孕育生命的源泉。也正是女人和男人的结合才有了人类的生生不息。
从水和泥的性质差别也可以看出女人和男人的性格差别。水,柔软,无形,质地清洁,却又可以滴水穿石;土,厚重,混沌,包容万千,却容易干裂风化。但是水和泥的结合却使得大自然充满了生机。同样,女人一直以来也是美的化身,温柔,善变,却又脆弱,但是同时又具有很强的耐性和韧性;男人一直是力量的代表,粗犷,阳刚,有很强的事业心和责任感。正是男人和女人的结合,才有了人类的发展,才有了今天的繁荣。
对于女孩来说也是这样,女孩在娘的肚子里慢慢长大的那一刻开始,就注定了她和男孩是完全不同的两类,她们秉承了母亲作为女人的那一份特质,柔弱,渴望被关注,注重与人的关系,爱美、敏感、胆小、容易生气和嫉妒,等等。
在女孩的世界里,她们和糖果、香水、漂亮的饰品以及一切一切美好的事物息息相关。女孩敏感,她们很注重与周围所有人之间的关系;女孩胆小,她们经常会被男孩子欺负,即使是比她们小的弟弟都敢毫无畏惧地欺负她们;女孩缺少主见,是穿绿色的裙子还是穿红色的裙子,很多时候都要妈妈来决定;女孩爱美,总是喜欢把自己打扮得花枝招展的,买了新衣服就赶快穿在身上;女孩喜欢攀比,看见别的女孩有什么漂亮的衣服就会让父母给自己也买一件;女孩具有很多天赋,但父母稍不留神,她们的天赋就有可能泯灭……
因此,父母要了解女孩的成长规律,在女儿不同的年龄阶段,采用不同的教育方案,使自己的小公主变得坚强、勇敢、有主见起来,把小公主的天赋激发出来。
与男孩相比,女孩更注重与别人的关系。男孩喜欢爬上爬下,女孩则喜欢安静地听妈妈讲故事、喜欢做安静的游戏;男孩崇拜英雄奥特曼、超人,女孩却喜欢美少女、白雪公主;男孩喜欢竞争,女孩更希望自己多几个知心的朋友……
为什么女孩和男孩那么的迥然不同呢?
从妈妈受孕那一刻起,女性染色体基因便被女性荷尔蒙激活了。女性荷尔蒙决定了女孩细心、敏感、安静、温柔等天性,同时也决定了女孩更注重人与人之间的关系。
女孩体内的雌性激素很关键地影响着她的感情生活。它控制着女孩思考的过程、情绪的稳定、做事的动机等。当雌性激素活动不稳定时,女孩的情绪就会产生波动。如果雌性激素过低,女孩就会感到孤独、悲伤、失望,很容易生气、发怒,这也是女孩更容易敏感的原因。
另外,女孩还受其他激素的影响。孕激素使女孩更喜欢小孩子和小动物;催产素使女孩产生更多的“怜悯之情”,也就是“母性的本能”;而且,女孩体内也有睾丸素,但是水平只及男孩的1/20,因此女孩不存在很强的攻击性,表现得更温顺、安静。虽然这些女性荷尔蒙使得女孩温柔、有很强的同情心、会体谅和关心他人,但这也导致她的情绪天生就变化无常。有文学家就曾把女人称为“最情感的动物”,是有一定的道理的。
女孩没有男孩那样的独立和竞争,因此她们会渴望父母更多的爱、渴望拥有更多的知心小伙伴,她们需要在人际关系中得到认可和尊重。但是女孩子却也更容易受伤和妥协。一旦女孩心中理想的关系遭到了破坏,她就会感觉很受伤。比如她犯了错误,父母批评她两句,她便会认为父母不爱她了;即使长大了,女孩也是很容易因为感情而受伤,我们经常可以在媒体上看到,某某女孩因为失恋而自杀。另外,因为更注重关系,女孩在关系和利益面前是很容易向关系妥协的。所以,女孩才会常常会放弃自己的正当利益,成为“软弱”的代名词。
对此,父母要尽量提升女儿的心灵“痛点”。“痛点”低的人对疼痛是很敏感的。女孩就属于“痛点”很低的那类人,只是她们不但身体的“痛点”很低,她们心灵的“痛点”更低。有时,别人不经意的一个轻视的眼神,都能使她的心灵受到伤害。因此,父母提升女儿的心灵“痛点”,就可以使女儿不那么容易地就受伤了。
另外,父母还要教女儿学会爱自己。女孩因为更注重人与人之间的关系,才会在遇到威胁时轻易地妥协,也因此容易受到伤害。因此,在女孩小的时候,父母就应向她们灌输一种自己爱护自己的思想,让她们知道,能够体谅他人是美德,但你一定要学会爱自己。
女孩子和男孩子就像冰与火的两极,父母只有了解了女儿的内心世界,走进女儿的内心世界,才能够更好地帮助和引导女儿健康快乐地成长。
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女孩像一朵花,她用美丽和绚烂将生活装饰得五彩斑斓;女孩像一泓清泉,她用温柔和体贴浇灌出生命的繁茂与坚韧;女孩像一串风铃,她那柔美的声音让世界变得丰富、让故事变得动听……
正是这样,每一个“望女成凤”的家长都在苦心孤诣地把自己的女孩塑造得更加优秀和美丽。而父母们知道吗,优秀的女孩不只是身体健康,她们还拥有泉涌般的才思和兰心蕙质;优秀的女孩不只是每次考试都能拿一百分,她们更懂得如何去学习,如何把自己发挥得更好,优秀的女孩不只是相貌出众、外表迷人,她们更因为非凡的气质和优雅的谈吐而被人们所爱护和关注。这样的女孩是每一个家长都想拥有的,每一对父母也都渴望自己的女孩可以做到这样优秀。
人常说,父母是孩子的第一任老师,因此,父母也就有责任把自己的小公主培养成各个方面都很优秀的女孩。那么,父母如何才可以把女孩培养成气质超凡、谈吐优雅、智慧出众的小公主,如何才可以把女孩培养成柔美端庄、善良宽厚、勤劳勇敢的小淑女呢?

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
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2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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