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《玩住孩子(男孩篇)》分六章,包括54(55)个关键点,把教育孩子的“招数”制作成标准化操作规程、形成契约,拿来就可以用。让您了解孩子自出生开始,所有养成教育的关键期和孩子的发展规律,以读懂孩子的心理为根本,手把手传授技巧,介绍世界上先进、有效的理念、办法。
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周正,华人著名心理学家,毕业于中山大学。因其观点鲜明、尖锐、务实,而被媒体誉为新锐资深实证心理学家。其独特的亲子教育理念和技巧广受家长欢迎。 《青年心理》、《读者》、《大学生》等杂志的专栏作家。 中央电视台《心理访谈》、《人物新周刊》,凤凰卫视网站《周正心理时间》,湖南卫视《播报多看点·周正亲子智慧》特约心理专家。
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引子 父亲--尊重你的儿子
母亲--降低家庭摩擦成本
第一章 如何保障儿子一定成功
关键点1:发现儿子的优势
关键点2:玩出儿子的事业
关键点3:坚守事业
关键点4:正确表迭金钱
关键点5:阶段财商教育
关键点6:外表整洁
关键点7:心中有序
关键点8:靠近成功文化
关键点9:学习成绩好与坏,儿子都有出息

第二章 如何让儿子远离失败
关键点10:儿子不沉湎于网络法则
关键点11:儿子不生病法则
关键点12:儿子不辍学法则
关键点13:儿子不离家出走法则
关键点14:儿子不厌学法则
关键点15:儿子不辞职法则
关键点16:培养男子汉法则

第三章 如何进行0-6岁的早期教育
关键点17:母乳喂养
关键点18:断奶
关键点19:抚养
关键点20:剖腹产
关键点21:早期全脑开发教育
关键点22:早期音乐教育
关键点23:早期数学教育
关键点24:早期英语教育

第四章 培养儿子的学习兴趣
关键点25:儿子的学习兴趣
关键点26:让儿子爱上写作业
关键点27:儿子写作业不磨蹭

第五章 如何保障儿子一生平安
关键点28:关于丢失
关键点29:关于独自在家
关键点30:遇见抢劫
关键点31:关于帮助
关键点32:关于伤口
关键点33:关于地震

第六章 对儿子进行正确的性教育
关键点34:阶段性自然交流
关键点35:6-8岁--艾滋病、性骚扰
关键点36:青春期--遗精、手淫
关键点37:性行为与责任

第七章 如何影响儿子建立融洽的人际关系
关键点38:儿子与父母的关系
关键点39:暴力否定型家长与儿子关系的修复
关键点40:溺爱否定型家长与儿子关系的修复
关键点41:儿子与班主任老师
关键点42:儿子与异性交往
关键点43:儿子与男同学
关键点44:酬赏与诤友

第八章 如何纠正儿子的不良行为
关键点45:关于说谎
关键点46:关于多动
关键点47:关于浪费
关键点48:关于打架
关键点49:关于急躁
关键点50:关于撒泼
关键点51:关于恐吓
关键点52:“问题”儿子的问题消失法则

第九章 儿子的幸福生活
关键点53:找个好工作
关键点54:选个好伴侣
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一岁的小涛涛吃饭时总是把手伸进菜盘里,蘸着番茄酱在桌子上东划一 下、西划一下。 妈妈:“不能动,你再敢动我就把你耳朵拧下来。” 涛涛根本不明白,又想用手抓番茄酱,妈妈照着他的小手“啪啪”打了 两下,涛涛愣了愣,忍不住瘪着嘴,哇哇哭着不敢在桌子上画了。 涛涛三岁的时候画了一幅画,“妈妈,看我画的妈妈。” 妈妈正在做饭,“妈妈正忙着呢,让爸爸看去。” 涛涛“噔噔噔”跑到正在看足球赛的爸爸跟前,“爸爸,我画的妈妈。 ” 爸爸瞅了一眼,“噢,好好,不错不错,去玩吧,别挡着爸爸——漂亮 , 进球了。” 涛涛看看妈妈,又瞅瞅爸爸,转过身就把画贴到了墙上,然后就去玩变 形金刚了。妈妈看到墙上的画,“涛涛,谁让你把画贴在墙上的?赶紧撕下 来,把墙都弄脏了。” 涛涛撅着小嘴,“我画的是妈妈。” 妈妈:“墙上不能乱贴东西,记住了吗?是你画的画?” 涛涛仰着头,期待地看着妈妈。 妈妈:“哎呀,涛涛,怎么没有画头发啊,去,再画一张。” 涛涛的眼神黯淡了,“妈妈,我饿了,不想画了。” 一次,涛涛在学校绘画大赛中获得优秀奖,回到家就拿出证书给爸爸妈 妈看,爸爸只是“嗯”了一声,妈妈在旁边倒是问长问短:“你们班有几个 同 学得奖,谁得了一等奖啊,优秀奖有几个?”对涛涛获得的成绩视而不见, 最 后倒是没忘说了说:“哎呀,优秀奖也就是安慰,这些都是瞎弄着玩,学习 才 是正事,还是好好学习吧。”一句表扬的话都没有。涛涛失望极了,还不如 不 参加呢。 于是,以后学校开展比赛涛涛再也没参加过。 冬至了,妈妈在包饺子,涛涛一看手痒痒,拿起一个饺子皮很快就包了 一只,还学着妈妈的样捏了一溜小花边儿,既整齐又漂亮。涛涛瞅着自己的 作品特得意,大声嚷嚷着:“妈妈,看,我包的饺子,无师自通,像雕刻出 来 的,有天赋吧,比我爸包的强多了,我要是当面点大师绝对是一流的。” 爸爸嗤之以鼻:“看你那点儿出息吧,啥不好当,当面点师,真有志向 ! 包饺子你能包出什么名堂,包饺子你能包出名牌大学来?没一点儿上进心! ” 妈妈在旁边附和道:“就是,前几天我还问明明呢,高考报什么专业, 人 家说要报导演系。啧啧,你看看你,没出息样!别包了,有空赶紧学习去吧 , 我们可不指望你帮我们干什么家务活,你只要把学习搞上去我们就谢天谢 地了!” 涛涛总是被打击,他已经习惯于被否定,每当他想展现自己的时候,总 是被父母泼一头的冷水。慢慢地,他不再为自己争取展现的机会。慢慢地, 他没有了展现的欲望。 涛涛的自信一点点被摧毁,无论自己如何努力地表现,妈妈总能挑出自 己的不是。与其这样,不如不做,不做就不会出问题。 于是,他的一生都迷失在自我否定中。 涛涛工作了,一碰到重要的问题就往后退。同事们跟涛涛合作,一碰到 棘手的事,涛涛就往后躲,不愿承担责任。久而久之,领导不再把重要的工 作交给他,同事也不愿与涛涛合作。看着身边的同事升职、加薪,涛涛却原 地踏步,甚至工作岗位也岌岌可危。但问题出在哪儿呢?涛涛又该怪谁呢? 难道涛涛就没有优势?即使是普通孩子,只要教育得法,也会成为不平 凡的人。 其实,我们不难看出涛涛的优势在运动与美术方面,正是家长对孩子的 优势视而不见,才导致了涛涛成为一个一无所长的人。这就是我们家长心目 中“没有优点”的孩子。 读者朋友看到这里也许着急了——我就是这样的,那如何找到儿子的优 势呢?我该怎么关注孩子的优点、长处呢? 擦亮你的眼睛,放大儿子身上的每一个细节,那些从小到大在儿子身上 闪现的长处就是他的优势,就是他成功的基石。优势决定儿子的命运。每一 个孩子都有超越他人的优势与长处,涛涛从小就显示了自己的长处所在,但 由于涛涛父母的无知,才导致了儿子的失败。 一个人,靠什么成功呢?靠父母的说教?父母的打骂?还是靠自己的缺 点?当然都不是,他靠的是自己的优势。你要让儿子学习好,养成好的习惯 , 就要关注儿子的优势。儿子总是被他的优势所激励,他会越来越自信,面对 困难他会用“SO EAsY!”(如此容易)的心态对待一切。这样的孩子你还担 心他会不成功吗?你总在找孩子的毛病、缺点,他就在不断否定自己,反正 我就这样了,反正不会有什么出息了。于是,他就会厌学、早恋、有网瘾。 我们还是问你这个重要的问题:“你的儿子是谁?他来世界上是做什么 的?”是否问得你头皮发麻,开始害怕了? 这就对了。你现在知道了,学习成绩不是所有人都适合走的路,人际关 系不是所有人都适合走的路,勤奋不是所有人都适合走的路,瞎比较不是所 有人都适合走的路,名师、名校也不是所有人都适合走的路,怎么办? 告诉你,唯独有一样——优势,是人人都可以走的成功之路。 人生下来必然有优势,大自然既然安排你儿子降生,就必然有他的道理 。 因为孩子在某一领域比别人有优势,比别人多了竞争力,那他在这一领域注 定出类拔萃。 当然,这有一定的个别性。关键是当事者——父母,必须对儿子的优势 有清楚的感受,能清楚地知道儿子的优势在哪里,然后有针对性地培养、发 展他,继而取得成功。 P16-19
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玩住孩子——契约化教育 您会玩车、玩电脑,但不一定能玩住孩子。 您的孩子和别的孩子一样,是经过上天检验的 “合格产品”,甚至是“精品”。如果他出现记忆力不 集中、粗心、考试成绩不佳、沉迷于网络、网恋、不 自信、人缘不好……那么,是孩子“搁浅”在路上了。 其实,这不是孩子“坏”了,而是驾驶员有问题,没 有看懂孩子的说明书、没有学习好教育孩子的技术就 上路了。 本书把教育孩子的“招数”制作成标准化操作规 程、形成契约,拿来就可以用。让您了解孩子自出生 开始,所有养成教育的关键期和孩子的发展规律,以 读懂孩子的心理为根本,手把手传授技巧,介绍世界 上先进、有效的理念、办法。 不为麻烦找借口,要为成功找方法。 掌握了技术,成为专家爹娘,您会大吃一惊,原 来教育孩子这么好玩儿,成为人生乐趣。

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