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不打不骂养育男孩(图解版)

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男孩为什么更喜欢冒险和竞争,时刻满怀英雄情节?男孩为什么更容易叛逆,不仅脾气倔,还喜欢和父母对着干?男孩为什么在学习方面不如女孩,并很容易产生厌学情绪?对于男孩来说,父亲的责任何在?母亲的作用何在?如何应对男孩在成长过程中遇到的各种危机?所有这些令男孩父母倍感困惑的问题,在《不打不骂养育男孩(图解版)》中您皆能找到答案!这是一本家族必备的育儿书,它简单、直接、易于阅读与操作。
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云晓,从事教育工作多年,长期专注于家庭成功教育和青少年心理健康的研究,其作品发表于各类教育刊物,现任云晓家庭教育咨询工作室总负责人、韩国蓝天双语幼儿园客座专家等职。云晓老师的作品自出版以来,长期位居各大书城、网络书城排行榜首位,在教育界产生了巨大的轰动!其已出版的畅销作品有《13岁前,妈妈改变孩子的一生》《培养了不起男孩的100个细节》《培养完美女孩的100个细节》《10-18岁青春期,和男孩说说爸妈的心里话》《10-18岁青春期,和女孩说说爸妈的心里话》等。
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第1章 男孩的成长历程——全面了解你的儿子
从出生到6岁——男孩需要家长特别的关注
方法一:对男孩多些关注
方法二:不要让男孩过早地进入幼儿同
方法三:满怀热情地鼓励男孩
本节重点图示:从出生到6岁,家长应该这样做
从6岁到12岁——男孩在不断展现自己的“男人气”
方法一:给男孩必要的监督和指导
方法二:捕捉男孩的内心情感,改变他对自己的看法
方法三:让男孩尽情去体验成功
本节重点图示:6~12岁,家长应该这样做
青春期——男孩渴望家长的理解
方法一:想办法让青春期男孩享受一下安静
方法二:不要否定他的朋友,但也不允许他交坏朋友
方法三:父亲要用男人的角色来引导男孩
本节重点图示:青春期,男孩的家长应该这样做

第2章 男孩来自于一个完全不同于女孩的“星球”
Y染色体——决定了男孩一生的生长蓝图
方法一:了解男孩性别认同的发展历程
方法二:给事物披上“性别”的外衣
方法三:利用“偶像”培养男孩的男子气概
本节重点图示:防止男孩出现“娘娘腔”倾向,家长应该这样做
睾丸素——男孩男性特征的“激活码”
方法一:精力过剩_在家中为男孩设立一个“宣泄区”
方法二:冒险性→把男孩寻求刺激的欲望引向正途
方法三:权力欲望强烈→放一定的权力给男孩
本节重点图示:帮男孩释放体内多余的睾丸素,家长应该这样做
男女大脑结构差异——影响男孩智力发展的关键因素
方法一:语言能力→在男孩小的时候,就大声读书给他听
方法二:思维方式→教男孩去体会他人的内心
方法三:学习能力→让男孩不再把学习当成“敌人”
本节重点图示:弥补男孩与女孩之间的智力差,家长应该这样做

第3章 养育男孩,父亲要扮演好自己的角色
做好男孩的榜样
——不同阶段,父亲要做好不同的榜样
方法一:面对幼儿期的男孩→帮他们走出对母亲的依恋
方法二:面对儿童期的男孩→明确规则,培养他们的自控能力
方法三:面对青春期的男孩→让他们感觉到道德约束的力量
本节重点图示:父亲如何做好男孩的榜样
做好男孩情感的引导者
——引导男孩正确看待并表达自己的情感
方法一:向男孩展示你的内心感受
方法二:让男孩学会如何爱别人
方法三:让男孩学会正确的情感自我抚慰方式
本节重点图示:父亲引导男孩正确表达自己情绪的方法
做好规则的制定者——教男孩正确认识并把握规则
方法一:苛求型的父亲→多认同,多鼓励
方法二:“不定时炸弹”型的父亲→向儿子明确自己的“规则”
方法三:消极型的父亲→主动向儿子讲述一些关于自己的情况
方法四:良师益友型的父亲→与男孩建立稳固而亲密的关系
本节重点图示:父亲如何与男孩相处

第4章 母亲的教育,决定男孩的一生
母亲是儿子人生的引导者
——教男孩认识自己,认识世界
方法一:母亲是儿子的一面镜子→用鼓励帮男孩正确认识自己
方法二:母亲是儿子的第一位“情人”→引导男孩正确与异性相处
方法三:母亲是儿子的心理医生→帮助男孩建立自尊心
本节重点图示:教男孩正确认识自己,母亲应当这样做
母亲是儿子人生的总设计师
——开发其智力,塑造其性格
方法一:在不同年龄段,让男孩都能感受到母亲的爱
方法二:打开儿子智力发展的“阀门”→对男孩进行正确的早期教育
方法三:母亲是男孩习惯、性格的“定型剂”→强化好习惯,祛除坏习惯
本节重点图示:塑造男孩的好人生,母亲应当这样做
母亲是儿子男性特征的激发者
——让男孩因母亲而更“强大”
方法一:男孩“胆小如鼠”→母亲要激发他们的“勇敢”潜能
方法二:面对男孩的破坏性→母亲要激发他的探索欲望
方法三:面对男孩的权力欲→母亲要发掘他的领导才能
本节重点图示:母亲激发男孩男性特征的方法

第5章 优秀男孩必须具备的三大素质
保持健康的身心状态
——助男孩走向成功的先决条件
方法一:父亲母亲联合起来→给男孩最科学的爱
方法二:运动的男孩最健康→引导男孩参加体育运动
方法三:触动男孩的心灵→打开男孩情感表达的“大门”
本节重点图示:助男孩保持健康心理,家长应当这样做
优秀男孩必须具备的三种能力
——政治、经济和领导能力
方法一:政治能力培养→父亲要经常与男孩讨论时事
方法二:经济能力培养→让男孩拥有富人的头脑
方法三:领导能力培养→锻炼男孩的“可能性思维”
本节重点图示:提升男孩的成功素质,家长应当这样做
让男孩对“诱惑”免疫
——培养男孩的是非辨别能力和自控力
方法一:培养男孩的辨别能力→让男孩学会明辨是非
方法二:男孩自控力的养成→“改译”男孩的行为
本节重点图示:让男孩对“诱惑”免疫,家长应当这样做

第6章 男孩成长过程中经常会出现的问题及解决方法
男孩总是表现出攻击行为怎么办?
男孩狂妄自大怎么办?
男孩自卑怎么办?
男孩个子矮怎么办?
男孩不喜欢上学怎么办?
青春期的男孩叛逆不羁怎么办?
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从出生到6岁——男孩需要家长特别的关注在一般人眼中,婴儿都是一样的,饿了会哭,吃饱了就睡,被妈妈搂在怀里根本看不出他们的性别。
然而,在有过养育经验的家长眼中,可完全不是这样。前段时间,我认识了一位拥有两个孩子的外国妈妈,现在她又怀孕了。
摸着隆起的肚子,她甜蜜地对我说:“肯定是个男孩!”我不解。
她继续解释道:“我已经生过一个女儿一个儿子,女儿比较乖,她总是安静地在我肚子里呆着;儿子则不同,他一会儿伸伸小胳膊,一会儿又用小脚、r踢我的肚皮,总是不让我安宁。现在我肚子里的小家伙好像总是在里面展示他的‘拳脚’,所以我断定他一定是个男孩。”这位妈妈的经验之谈听起来很有道理,但是否具有科学性。我们无从考证。不过有一点我们可以肯定,男孩与女孩之间的性别差异很早就已经开始显现了:男孩对触碰的感觉没有女孩敏感,当有人触碰一个男婴的脸时,他一般不会有什么反应。但当人们抚摸一个女婴的脸时,如果这个抚摸的人是她所熟悉的,她会冲他微笑;相反,如果这是一个陌生人,她就会用哭闹来表示反抗。
当男孩和女孩都到了蹒跚学步的年龄时,女孩们一般都会拉着父母的手小心地迈步;但男孩却不同,他们喜欢自己走来走去,去摸索更为广阔的空间。
在玩积木玩具时,女孩喜欢把积木摆得平平稳稳,而男孩却喜欢用积木来建各种奇形怪状的“高楼大厦”。
在幼儿园与小朋友相处时,男孩与女孩也会表现出不同,女孩会格外关注新来的小朋友,并且会友好地对待他们;而男孩则常常会忽视新来的小朋友,有时甚至还会欺负他们。
由于男孩、女孩表现不同,也由于家长头脑中一些固有的性别观念在作怪,他们总认为男孩是强大的,是调皮捣蛋的,是不需要特殊关注的。
但正是由于家长们的这些错误观念,常常会使男孩的情感得不到满足、心理受到伤害,甚至形成极端的性格。
一位心理学家曾做过这样一个试验:为了不显示出性别,他给一个1岁多的婴儿穿上一身中性的衣服,然后告诉一组父母,这个孩子是女孩;对另一组父母却说,这个孩子是男孩。然后要求这两组父母分别陪这个婴儿玩。
结果,第一组父母大多都拿出布娃娃让“女孩”玩;而第二组父母给孩子玩的玩具却是小玩具枪和小足球。
试验到了最后阶段。两组父母都经历了一个特殊的情况,这个孩子突然被一个会发出奇怪声音的玩具吓了一跳,并大哭起来。然而这时,两组父母的表现却截然不同:第一组父母看到“女孩”被吓哭了,便连忙去安慰“她”,并告诉“她”不要害怕:而第二组父母却不太在意“男孩”的哭泣,他们认为一个男孩子被一个玩具吓哭,是很没出息的一件事。甚至还有些家长把“男孩”的哭声解释成“愤怒”,他们认为这是“男孩”故意在给他们添麻烦。
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写在前面的话谁是成功的爸爸?谁是伟大的妈妈?因为工作的关系,常常有孩子的父母问我一个这样的问题:“你说,什么样的爸爸才是好爸爸?什么样的妈妈才是成功的妈妈?”对于这个问题,不同的人会给出不同的答案,每个人都会从不同的角度发掘出不同的好爸爸因素、成功妈妈因素,如给予孩子更多关爱、适当树立权威、与孩子平等沟通,等等。但只有这些就够了吗?我以为,答案并不仅限于此,父母是否做得成功,衡量的标准只有一个,那就是:※当你的儿女长大成人时,他们是否会说出这样一句话:“我最感谢的人,就是我的爸爸(妈妈)。”当长大成人的男孩或女孩,意识到父亲或母亲曾经给予自己的教育让自己受益终身,并表示由衷的感谢时,这种感谢往往就意味着:你是一个成功的父亲,你是一个伟大的母亲!相信每一位父母听到这样的话,都会感觉自己不枉此生,并为自己的成功教育而感到骄傲和自豪。
当然,在现实生活中,我们听到过很多这样的感谢,同时也听到过很多对父母的怨言:“如果父亲在我小时候……我就不会像今天这样。”“如果母亲……也许我今天就会更幸福。”我想,这也许是身为父母者最不愿听到的话,也是最感心寒的话。因为这句话不仅抹杀了你对儿女所有的无私奉献,更意味着:你所有的努力与付出都是错误的,儿女因你错误的教育方式而失去了未来的幸福!曾经身为人子或身为人女,如今则为人父、为人母,这是所有人必经的一条成长之路。因此,在进入本书的阅读之前,我想向天下所有父母提出这样一个问题:身为父母,不管养育的是男孩还是女孩,你想在未来听到孩子怎样的评价呢?我的建议是唯一的:想听到什么,就去做什么!希望我的研究和创作,能够给您带来全新的、更为实用的、更为具体的方法和启示!
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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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