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是一本教会女人如何说话的书,这更是一本教会女人如何幸福的书。生动的生活实例,直观的幸福样本,为女性读者提供切实有效的帮助。


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本书结合男女两性不同的心理和性格特点,为女性诠释科学合理的说话技巧、说话态度、说话语气。书中通过一个个生动的生活实例,对症下药,为女性读者量身定做,教你如何成为幸福女人。

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苏瑾,供职于《婚姻与家庭》杂志社。入职场十余年,无论是在职场还是情场,她都积累了丰富的“斗争”经验,是京城白领和基层女性崇拜的畅销书专家,其代表作有《90天修炼气质女神》、《女人如何说男人才爱听》、《女人就是要有气质》等书,被誉为“情场*一教母”“女性情感专家”。

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上 篇
男人的心理都“变态”,婚姻的真相很雷人
——女人开口前必须扫清的认知障碍
第一章
接受男人的“变态”心理,才能解开沟通的死结
◇怜香惜玉心理002
◇国王心理005
◇玩具心理008
◇抢食心理010
◇面子大过天心理013
◇“戴高乐”心理016
第二章
顺应婚姻的肌肤纹理,才能用对粉饰太平的手法
◇从现在开始,放弃关于婚姻的“俺娘说”018
◇婚姻不是黑社会,是个摸奖箱021
◇婚姻是双鞋一点不假,但脚和鞋永远拧巴024
◇一是一,一加一才有可能等于二027
◇男女不平等婚姻才能美满030
◇婚姻不怕目的不纯,就怕目的不明032
◇绚烂的爱情终将“沉沦”为亲情036
◇所有人的婚姻都是61分038
◇婚姻拒绝完美主义041
第三章
男女情爱沟通思维之“大不同”
◇思维方式不同:男人想好再说,女人不想就说044
◇沟通目的不同:男人没事不说,女人想说就说047
◇价值观念不同:男人习惯掌控,女人喜欢聆听050
◇内心诉求不同:男人渴望理解,女人渴望爱052
◇沟通方式不同:男人靠“说”,女人靠“感”054
◇解压方式不同:女人喜欢倾诉,男人喜欢发呆057
中?篇
会说话才是好女人,永远不会“被伤心”
——男女沟通有禁令,聪明女人不会踩线
第四章
恋爱时,会说话的女人是超级小甜心
◇不要逼问他的情史062
◇不要随意晾晒你的“私情”064
◇别说“我以前的男朋友比你对我好多了”067
◇不要把“孔方兄”挂在嘴上069
◇是你追的我,又不是我追的你072
◇你以前对我比现在好多了074
◇别把分手当润唇膏使用,男人不是吓大的077
第五章
婚姻中,会说话的女人永远不会失婚
◇沟通不畅是最具毁灭性的婚姻冷暴力080
◇夫妻说话定律:谁说得越多,谁的话越没分量082
◇永远不直说他“娘家人”的坏话085
◇不要以妈妈式的口吻和他说话087
◇不要拿他和别人家的男人比090
◇陆小曼是个反面教材093
◇不要总是对他说“我容易吗我”096
◇可怕的“民政局门口见”099
◇别等到男人失去耐心的时候才想起来“维和”101
◇温柔地把男人引入你的“包围圈”103
第六章
吵架时,会吵架的女人让男人越爱越深
◇请注意:吵架也是一种沟通106
◇吵架和炒菜一样,要把握火候109
◇夫妻吵架要避开的“危情时刻”112
◇吵架时千万不能说的话114
◇秒杀恶吵:家是讲爱的地方,不是讲理的地方117
◇妥协不可耻,死硬才“悲催”119
◇适可而止,别让争吵升级为战争121
◇用温柔淹死那头咆哮的狮子124
第七章
女人幸福定律:唠叨没了,幸福来了
◇女人天生是话痨127
◇唠叨是婚姻的大敌130
◇男人为什么惧唠叨132
◇请牢记唠叨的“破唱片效果”135
◇掌握唠叨的艺术,唠叨女变成“解语花”137
◇给唠叨找个合适的“第三者”140
下?篇
我知女人心,沟通疑难杂症急诊室
——只有不会说话的女人,没有经营不下去的婚姻
第八章
婆婆来了,你该乖乖地说
◇婆媳是天然的公敌146
◇“妈妈”两个字是婚姻的“创可贴”148
◇和婆婆说话,怕直不怕弯150
◇“哄”出来的好婆婆154
◇用撒娇的方式公然忤逆她156
◇处处请教,“弱弱地”赢定她158
◇婆婆面前媳妇不能做的和不能说的161
第九章
“第三者”驾到,你该得体地说
◇愚蠢大多是在手脚或舌头转得比大脑还快的时候产生的164
◇淡定地告诉全世界:我们过得挺好的166
◇问题出在自己家,我不会找她算账168
◇咱们拥有的矛盾,多年后你保证和她没有吗172
◇假如你能比我做的更好,我愿意把“白宫”让给你175
◇脚比鞋重要,当鞋确实伤害了脚,我们不妨赤脚赶路178
◇我不介意你去了哪里,你回来了就好181
第十章
对于“顽固派老公”,你得狡猾地说
◇如何引导婴儿型老公生活自理184
◇如何帮助恋母型老公解“结”187
◇如何和脾气坏的老公沟通190
◇如何让兴趣不同的老公合你口味192
◇如何启发闷葫芦老公变得嘴勤195
◇如何说服工作狂老公爱家爱生活198
第十一章
孩子的问题上,你得客观地说
◇每个女人生命中都有两个难缠的“孩子”201
◇两个孩子之间会争风吃醋203
◇不要在孩子面前说“爸爸不好”205
◇别因为育儿方式的差异分道扬镳208
◇千万不要说:他和你家的人一样210
◇不要“红了樱桃,黄了芭蕉”212

Book Abstract

短暂的爱情或许可以是这样的:女孩飞扬跋扈,男孩唯命是从。
但长久的婚姻必定是这样的:女人如花似玉(可以没有花的娇美,但一定要有花的娇态;可以没有玉的品相,但一定得有玉的娇贵),男人怜香惜玉。
怜香惜玉,是男女关系和谐的命门。男人若不怜香惜玉,必定留不住女人;而女人若勾不起男人怜香惜玉的本能,那她的婚姻生活必将乏味又劳累,这个女人也就是典型的劳碌命。据我多年观察,很多婚姻中的女人整天抱怨活得憋屈,男人不疼婆婆不爱,大都是自找苦吃。其原因在于她们平时表现得过于硬朗,根本不注意勾起男人的爱怜之心,根本就没有给老公怜香惜玉的机会。
接到大学同窗好友莎莎的哭诉电话,是我怎么也没想到的事,当年我们都看好她和阿东的金玉良缘。莎莎不仅漂亮、能干,还是招男生喜欢的贤妻良母型小女子。至于阿东呢,是温文尔雅、怜香惜玉的好男人,我们都以为他们的婚姻自然会是甜蜜、幸福的。

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