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《冷读术：魅力男人的恋爱沟通术》重点解读了男性如何掌控与异性的交往过程。从冷读术的概念出发，详细介绍了男性在与女性交往中如何看穿对方心理、吸引对方的注意……以及最终建立稳健的亲密关系的过程。对于希望顺畅地结交异性的男性读者来说，阅读《冷读术：魅力男人的恋爱沟通术》将会使你迅速掌握不一样的恋爱技巧，轻松赢得女人心。
《冷读术：魅力男人的恋爱沟通术》适合想要改善恋爱、婚姻关系，以及提升异性缘的男性读者使用。

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柳千雪，喜欢创意的思考。诗意的生活。写过诗-做过广告，当过经理人。在深圳、东莞等地有过或长或短的停留。现寄居于北京，与孤独为伍·涉猎心理学、哲学与蕾理学，不求甚解。寄希望于洞察世事、知晓人性，以入世之心廑自我。

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冷读术为什么会有效
把妹达人身上的不传秘笈：冷读术
不是让你成为情场骗子，而是教你赢得好感
你的完美印象，选择性记忆的圈套
冷读术：其实你没那么喜欢她
偏执男：爱她就为她付出一切
潜意识捆绑，让她在不知不觉中爱上你
冷读术让你成为男女关系中的雄性领袖
开启冷读系统看穿女人本性
发现她的弱点，顺利越过心理防线
捕捉瞬间的脸部信息，让她无处可逃
关注对方的肢体语言，做出调整
关注笔迹，推测出她的性格
她是真的拒绝你，还是在扭捏作态
用杯子技巧，测试她对你的接纳程度
观察她的行为，不让她先说“拜拜”
谜男法则：你必须与众不同
孔雀理论：七秒钟打动女人心
谜男包装，让她的眼神离不开你
若有若无的肢体接触，激发她的无限想象
强势推拉，让她主动取得被你追的权利
领袖达人杀手锏：她不过是可有可无的女人
用无法证实的言论，让她深深着迷
巧妙累积预言，一步步俘获她的心
三秒钟法则，别让你的猎物逃脱
捉摸不透的暗示，让她甘心臣服
避过她的防御系统，直达心灵入口
绕过无意识防御，获取你想知道的信息
扩大缩小法，打开她心中的秘密花园
巧妙的言语暗示，让她的神经放松
信息渗透，别让她的理智发挥作用
用你的眼神，让她主动开口约会
给她亲密感，她就能交出所有
使用共鸣技术，让她敞开心扉
动态分叉技巧，让你轻松掌控话题
关注她的“蛛丝马迹”，给她知己的感觉
说出她想听的话，让她不自觉解除心防
特异说话术：让她防不胜防的攻心术
利用开放性话题，让她畅所欲言
判断对方兴趣指标，做出是否交往的决定
利用巴南效应，迷惑女人心
使用模糊说法，让她不自觉对号入座
巴南效应：三大心理促成它的生效
使用风趣否定，一语命中她的内心
四大框架，轻松说中她的烦恼
巧妙探寻法，让她迫不及待显露出自己的立场
诱导她的内心期望，帮她说出“心里话”
用“幽默”，说出让她动心的话
针对不同情景的例行话题，助你成为情场高手
用你的话，决定她情绪的起伏
五种语言框架转换，引导她产生积极体验
绑架潜意识，让她的思维不知不觉随你而动
“双重束缚术”，令她无法拒绝的约会邀请
强势的“是的”组合，让她答应得措手不及
创建她脑海中的有效意象，令她不自觉回应
运用关键转折词，给她一个积极的体验
完善的框架转换语言，让她对你的话深信不疑
给她所缺失的，得到你想要的
任何人都拥有两张脸：大众普遍心理
说出她想听的话，完美俘获女人心
从正反两面来说话，让她不自觉为你沉醉
利用矛盾心理，从反面去说中她的心事
高超称赞技巧，让她主动接近你
情人攻心术：分割组合法
攻破潜意识“维持现状机制”，有效击败她的矜持
迷男必杀技：她有性格，不是问题
性格测试法，一眼看穿女人性格
内向与外向，人际观念大不同
获得孤高女芳心的方法：晓之以理
获得热情女芳心的方法：动之以情
孤高女冷读系统，有些禁忌你必须避开
热情女冷读系统，你需要的是减少尴尬
巧妙组合，女人孤高热情都不是问题
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Introduction

冷读术，指的是一种“在事先没有准备的情况之下，读取对方的心理，并预言未来的事”的沟通技术。这一沟通技术源自于日本的石井裕之老师的经验总结，它旨在教会大家通过运用这种策略性的沟通技巧，达到瞬间赢得对方信任的目的。
在这门人际交往技术中，“冷读术”只是一个概念，它的本质仍然是一些读心、诱导、催眠等心理学知识的应用。当我们洞察了这个秘密后，对于如何学习这门人际交往的技术来说将变得更为简单和有趣。
笔者曾和石真语老师一起深入研究过这门沟通技术，并在此基础上策划、编写了《冷读术（白金珍藏版）》一书。这本书的出版是我们在长期研究应用心理学的基础上，对冷读术进行了系统化学习和理解后的一次再创作。
《冷读术（白金珍藏版）》的出版受到了众多读者的热爱，也有部分读者对于如何进一步应用这门技术提出了更高的要求。他们希望借助于冷读术使得自己在社交、职场、销售、恋爱关系中变得更加主动、积极，并且事半功倍。
针对这一切实需求，笔者和众多心理咨询师、培训讲师以及冷读术爱好者进行了广泛的接触和探讨，并在此基础上总结了诸多更为场景化的应用模式，这也为我们接下来编写这套“冷读术实操应用丛书”提供了现实背景和实践经验。
“冷读术实操应用丛书”主要侧重于解决读者在社会交往、职场沟通、销售谈判以及恋爱关系四个方面的困境。
在日常生活中，我们也许正在为如何处理客户关系、如何与上司或下属沟通、如何与异性朋友建立亲密关系、如何发展更多的人脉资源等问题而苦恼。这套丛书只有一个目的，那就是帮助你解决这些问题！通过阅读本套丛书，我们将更加深入地了解冷读术，使之不再是抽象的心理学概念，而是一个个沟通话语和行动要领，使你迅速掌握读懂人心、打动人心的交往策略。只要我们掌握了冷读术的这些实战技巧后，再次面对各种交往、沟通困境时，便能够轻易地化解，并且从容地引导对方进入自己的沟通语境，最终赢得人心。
爱自己，爱他人。从内心到行动，让自己散发出迷人的魅力，处处赢得好人缘，这就是冷读术教会我们的生活观。
本书是“冷读术实操应用丛书”中的一本，重点解读了男人如何掌控与异性的交往过程。本书从冷读术的概念出发，详细解读了与女性交往中如何看穿对方心理、如何吸引对方的注意……，以及最终建立稳健的亲密关系的过程。不管你是情场新手，还是情场老手，阅读本书都将让你迅速掌握不一样的恋爱技巧，轻松赢得女人心。
衷心地希望本书能给广大读者朋友带来帮助。如果您发现书中不足之处，还请提出宝贵的意见和建议。
柳千雪
2012年12月

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