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爱情的幸福修行:读懂男人心

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★世界知名两性关系咨询专家芭芭拉·安吉丽思博士,一本书教你读懂男人心;
★长接地气的婚恋修行宝典,常踞纽约畅销书榜的两性情感圣经;
★带你走进男人的内心世界,众多女性梦寐以求的男性“说明书”;
★幸福爱情需要每日修行,获得幸福的有效方法就是两个人都深切地了解对方,共同完善自我;
★本书将带你体会“男人与女人的思考差异”,理解“男人的情感周期”,掌握“情感地图”,打造你和爱人的幸福生活;
★一本让女人读懂男人、理解男人的好书,姊妹篇《爱情的幸福修行:读懂女人心》一同奉上;
男人与女人的思考差异
男人以解决问题为导向。
当你被某个问题困扰,向伴侣寻求安慰时,他通常不会将你说的听进去。
你需要的是:安心、安慰、拥抱、倾听、告诉你一切都没问题。但你得到的却是:冷淡的告诫、连串的问题、长篇大论的训斥。
你要的是爱,他却跟你大谈理性;你希望受到母亲般的呵护,他却像一个严厉的父亲。
当你的男人看到你为了某个问题烦躁不安的时候,他会本能地主动接管你的问题,心里想:“如何解决?如何解决?”
他可能也不知道该怎样解决,但这并不重要。他会不停地追根究底,或是静静地思索。你会觉得他是一个迟钝的傻瓜,但是他却自认是你的骑士,要来拯救你。
情感运行周期
就算男人深爱着女人,有时他还是想逃离女人。这是一种本能,因为男人需要有独立的空间,他们不喜欢受到约束,不喜欢被女人限制,特别是在他们心情不好的时候,往往喜欢一个人静静独处,不受打扰。
坠入爱河的男人,在享受两人世界的同时,也会时常想起独处的自由和美好。可是,等到男人满足了自由和独立的需求后,又会怀念女人的亲密和甜蜜来,男人就是这样在“亲密”和“独处”之间来回转换。
你不妨这样来理解:在两性关系中,女人就像太阳,不停地散发自己的爱与热情;男人就像地球,以一个椭圆形的轨道绕着太阳运行,有时离太阳近一些,有时离太阳远一些。我把这个称为男人的“情感运行周期”。

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你是否曾期望过每个男人都自带一份说明书?如果你买台咖啡机或是烤面包机,都会附赠一本小册子,帮你了解产品功能以及怎样避免因操作不当伤到自己。可对女人来说,我们“使用”很多的就是男人,远远超过各种电器,可我们却只能自己摸索男人的“运行方法”。
很多女性不理解男人与自己的差异,总是期望男人像自己一样感性、乐于分享情感、敞开心扉交流,甚至以自己的模式来要求和改造男人,结果不可避免地造成误解和争吵,双方都满腹怨气,曾经甜蜜的爱情变成了折磨。
安吉丽思博士因爱创作、倾力奉献的这本书,将会带你走进男人的内心世界,教会你如何去理解男人,消除相互之间的沟通障碍,进而与他们维持良好的亲密关系。
读懂男人心之后,你会发现,男人其实很可爱。

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芭芭拉·安吉丽思,全球个人成长与灵性成长领域具影响力的导师之一,著名的两性关系专家和畅销书作家。她曾为美国哥伦比亚广播电视网(CBS-TV)主持节目,也曾担任美国有线电视新闻网(CNN)《新闻之夜(Newsnight)》节目的人际关系专家,拥有极高的收视率和人气。
安吉丽思在21岁的时候与约翰·格雷结婚,但两人的婚姻以失败告终。离婚之后,他们对自己婚姻失败的教训进行反思和总结,两个人后来都成为著名的两性关系专家和畅销书作家。约翰·格雷创作了畅销书《男人来自火星,女人来自金星》系列,芭芭拉·安吉丽思博士则创作了《活在当下》《爱情的幸福修行:读懂男人心》《爱情的幸福修行:读懂女人心》《爱是一切的答案》等多部畅销书,她的这些著作分别在《纽约时报》畅销书排行榜上名列前茅,并被译成20余种文字出版。
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芭芭拉 安吉丽思博士的成就令人惊讶——她让两性之间有更多的理解和信任,而不是误解和猜疑。她在这本书里提供了很多宝贵的建议,每个女人都应该至少读上一遍。
——芭芭拉 露丝(Barbara Sherry Rose) 美国知名女作家

这就是我的第二本圣经!芭芭拉具有非凡的洞察力,当我按照她教的方法去倾听男人的话、解读男人的想法,我发现我和身边的男人们——不仅仅是我的男友——相处得越来越好!
——梅 韦斯特(Mae West) 英国读者

这本书不仅讲了男人的一些秘密,也讲了女人的一些错误行为以及正确的做法,这让我受益匪浅。而且,毫无疑问,我丈夫真的很喜欢这本书的某些建议。
——瑞贝卡 罗梅恩(Rebecca Romijn) 美国读者
Catalogue

第一章男人:有待开拓的荒野/1
大脑决定了男女的差异/5
遗传记忆:天生的猎人和战士/8
为什么男人一直支配女人/12
社会是如何塑造男人的/14
时代变化的挑战/16
第二章女人对男人犯的六大错误/19
你的两性关系的健康度/20
错误一:女人表现得像母亲,视男人如孩子/24
错误二:没有原则地自我牺牲/36
错误三:女人爱上男人的潜在期望/46
错误四:隐藏自己的才华和能力/52
错误五:用小女孩的姿态向男人撒娇/57
错误六:填补情感的空白/60
第三章解开男人的三大谜团/77
谜团一:为什么男人讨厌看到自己犯错?/78
谜团二:为什么男人讨厌女人情绪化?/88
谜团三:为什么男人不像女人一样在乎爱情和两性关系?/99
第四章男人的性爱秘密/107
秘密一:当男人无法从情感上表达自己的时候,往往会用性来表达/109
秘密二:当你拒绝男人的性爱要求时,他会感到感情被拒绝了/113
秘密三:勃起错觉/115
秘密四:如果你和爱人有更多的性接触,做爱的次数也会增加/118
秘密五:男人渴望女人为他们口交/124
秘密六:为什么男人不喜欢在做爱时说话/129
秘密七:男人做完爱后激情会立即消退/132
秘密八:男人容易被可见的诱惑挑起性欲/134
第五章最易让男人失去性趣的10种女人/137
类型一:表现得不喜欢性爱的女人/139
类型二:做爱时不停讲话的女人/143
类型三:在床上扮演交通警察的女人/146
类型四:不会打理自己的女人/148
类型五:过于注重容貌的女人/151
类型六:接吻方式马虎粗鲁的女人/154
类型七:太严肃的女人/156
类型八:肤浅、拜金、喜欢卖弄风骚的女人/158
类型九:经常提起前任男友的女人/162
类型十:缺乏自发性性欲的女人/165
第六章和男人沟通的秘密/169
沟通秘密一:谈话有中心主题,与男人的沟通效果好/171
沟通秘密二:男人通常只说出他们思考得出的结论,而不谈思考的过程/174
沟通秘密三:男人不像女人容易进入自己的感情世界/179
如何倾听男人的心声/186
关于男人如何交流的五个常见问题/195
男女词典/205
第七章男人的情感需求/207
男人需要独立的空间/208
男人需要信任、认可和欣赏/212
第八章如何帮助你所爱的男人敞开心扉/219
你的伴侣想敞开心扉吗/221
如何知道男人愿意敞开心扉/222
如何知道男人不愿敞开心扉/224
更多的帮助你所爱的男人的方法/225
第九章做自信的女人/227
要点一:做完本书中的各项练习/228
要点二:拟一份感情生活的错误清单,然后制订出自己的《感情生活守则》/229
要点三:组织女性支援会/231
要点四:维护自己的尊严/232
结束语/233
后记/234
Book Abstract

《爱情的幸福修行:读懂男人心》:
想象一下:你被选中参加一次外星球探险活动。起程之前,你仅仅知道这个星球上住着一群相貌和你非常相似的生物。经过漫长的太空旅程,你们抵达这个遥远的星球,当你走出飞船的舱门时,一群看似友好的外星人正欢迎你们的到来,这些外星人跟你非常相像。更令你惊讶的是,他们居然跟你说着同样的语言。接下来的几个小时,你试图与他们交谈、互动。刚开始,你似乎和他们相处得很好,但是随着时间的流逝,你和他们之间的气氛逐渐变得紧张。虽然这些外星人说着和你一模一样的语言,但是当你和他们真正交流的时候,他们却常常误解你的意思——你说的明明是这回事,他们却听成另一回事。比如,当你试图表示好奇的时候,他们却认为是批评。
如果你观察这些外星人彼此之间的关系和相处模式,你会发现你们和他们这两个物种之间的差异更加明显。你们被教育以合作为美德,但那些外星人却崇尚相互竞争;你们喜欢分享自己的情感,但他们却极力掩饰自己的真情。你和这些外星人待得越久,心情越是沮丧。
最后,你和你的探险队决定离开这个奇怪而令人不安的地方。你必然认为,既然这些外星人对你们的造访没有表示出热情,他们一定巴不得你们早点儿离开。然而,令你感到非常惊讶的是,当你宣布即将离开的时候,他们显得非常难过,他们说他们非常留恋这段彼此相处的美好时光,并恳求你们留下来。你不顾他们的挽留,踏进飞船,但心中的困惑也达到了顶点。
当引擎把飞船推向太空时,你心里不禁想:“这是我见过的最奇怪的一种生物,他们说的是一回事,而想的是另一回事。他们表现得若无其事,但是内心却激情澎湃。当我们在的时候,他们表现出很不耐烦的样子;而当我们离开的时候,他们又会难过。算了,虽然他们很有意思,但我实在不想和他们在一起生活。”
……
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你是否曾期望过每个男人都自带一份说明书?如果你买台咖啡机或是烤面包机,都会附赠一本小册子,帮你了解产品功能以及怎样避免因操作不当伤到自己。可对女人来说,我们“使用”最多的就是男人,远远超过各种电器,可我们却只能自己摸索男人的“运行方法”。
每一天,我们都在跟男人——我们的丈夫或男友、老板或下属、父亲或儿子、男性友人等——打交道。我们试图理解他们、照顾他们、与他们沟通、爱他们,也希望得到他们的爱。情况好的时候,我们觉得男人很好,我们生活中离不开男人;情况不好的时候,我们会觉得男人不可理喻,期望最好永远也不用再跟男人打交道。我相信,你有时候肯定会沮丧得想举手投降,大喊:“快把这个男人送回工厂去——他有故障!肯定是缺了什么零件,因为他根本不正常。”
作为女人,你有三种选择来应对一生中的男人:
1.对导致你抓狂的男人,你可以生气,花费时间抱怨他们(这在几小时内或许有些乐趣,但几年后会失去吸引力)。
2.你可以完全放弃男人,买一条漂亮的、毛茸茸的狗来陪伴你。(这是一种省钱省力的办法,但不是最好的方法。)
3.你可以下定决心,学会理解男人、与男人和睦相处,然后你可以拥有你所渴望的美妙爱情。
过去十五年中,我研究过数以万计的男人和女人,了解是什么让两性关系幸福美满,又是什么导致两性关系的失败。我花了很长的时间去了解男人,这是一段困难又经常会令人痛苦的经历,我也犯过不少错误。但我很高兴最后我成功了,而且,对于男人的全新理解也改变了我的生活。我想把我学习、了解的东西与你们分享,希望这本书能成为男人的使用说明书,帮你创建梦寐以求的充满爱意的两性关系。

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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